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Old 02-01-2015, 01:04 AM
 
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Yup, one is normal and the one is wacky lol
You've been dating and complaining for how many years?
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:04 AM
 
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The feedback from this site has been kind of wacky

One girl from chicago sends me her number

Another girl from PA is too scared to


When she was ending the conversation I was letting her know indirectly that we need to talk longer the next time because that's the only way you will be comfortable with me. But I can myself talking on the phone with one girl and she beeps in with her "unknown caller" and I will be like....."whatever"

lol
we are a bit wacky like that, all different

Sounds like you're not interested in getting to know her, and allowing her to be comfortable... so yeah, probably just best to cut contact now.
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:06 AM
 
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Yup, one is normal and the one is wacky lol
One girl just has different standards as is cautious. Like how one woman have have sex only hours after meeting you. Another won't have sex until an emotional connection is established. So, saying the girl isn't normal seems a bit closed minded.

That'd be like if I said only losers date online because otherwise they'd be meeting people in person 1st anyhow. That's totally foolish, and there's many reasons people may prefer online. Or if I said a guy who's single for a good while is a loser because no women want him. Another foolish statement.

So, different strokes. This girl just isn't a match for you, and if you have no patience for you, not meeting her would be a favor to both of you. Just tell her she's too cautious for you.
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:09 AM
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One girl just has different standards as is cautious. Like how one woman have have sex only hours after meeting you. Another won't have sex until an emotional connection is established. So, saying the girl isn't normal seems a bit closed minded.

That'd be like if I said only losers date online because otherwise they'd be meeting people in person 1st anyhow. That's totally foolish, and there's many reasons people may prefer online. Or if I said a guy who's single for a good while is a loser because no women want him. Another foolish statement.

So, different strokes. This girl just isn't a match for you, and if you have no patience for you, not meeting her would be a favor to both of you. Just tell her she's too cautious for you.

And the only way I would meet her with her contact number is if she comes to pick me up at my house lol

I am not setting myself up to be stood up so I rather just chill and have her call from that Unknown number to say...."Im outside"
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:17 AM
 
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And the only way I would meet her with her contact number is if she comes to pick me up at my house lol

I am not setting myself up to be stood up so I rather just chill and have her call from that Unknown number to say...."Im outside"

You can IM via yahoo and a million other IMs without having someone's number.
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:20 AM
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You can IM via yahoo and a million other IMs without having someone's number.
She said something about Skype but I have no interest in that or something called Chest that she mentioned on the phone.
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:22 AM
 
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She said something about Skype but I have no interest in that or something called Chest that she mentioned on the phone.
Well there you go. There are, literally hundreds of ways to communicate without someone's phone number, if you are not open to that fact then that's that.

So many women, so many complaints....

Honestly, I'm not even sure why you date?
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:28 AM
 
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You've been dating and complaining for how many years?
^^^ This! No wonder you have hard time dating. Looks like it's not the girls fault. It's YOU!
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:32 AM
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Well there you go. There are, literally hundreds of ways to communicate without someone's phone number, if you are not open to that fact then that's that.

So many women, so many complaints....

Honestly, I'm not even sure why you date?


When I am home it's the PHONE and that's it because the computer eliminates texting and the internet eliminates instant messaging. So I guess it makes sense just to ignore her call when she calls back next week. Plus I wasn't to thrilled to hear she is living with a male roommate lol
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Old 02-01-2015, 01:35 AM
 
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When I am home it's the PHONE and that's it because the computer eliminates texting and the internet eliminates instant messaging. So I guess it makes sense just to ignore her call when she calls back next week. Plus I wasn't to thrilled to hear she is living with a male roommate lol
When I used Yahoo the message/chat were on my phone and computer. So were the the messaging/chat on Facebook, Match.......

A male roommate?!!! Scandal!! Good thing your technologically behind or you might have gone out with her!
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