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Yeah...see...again...exactly what I'm talking about. It's unimaginable to you, great. I didn't really go to parties and I didn't play spin the bottle. Not everyone has the same experiences. You make a ton of assumptions about how people live their lives. Just because that was your experience doesn't mean it was someone else's and no I didn't go out of my way to avoid anything, it just never happened.
I never even came close to kissing someone. I've had many people I wanted to kiss, in fact ever since I was 12 I've always had a crush on someone. It just never happened and nobody I liked ever liked me back.
Yes, I have awful luck. You're quite a genius to figure that out, I must say.
LOL I love how people answering this think I'm a guy! As if this could never happen to a woman. Well guess what, it did. Men aren't the only ones with this problem.
That's another thing that sucks about being a WOMAN with this problem--nobody takes it seriously and everyone thinks it's easy for women to get laid. Sure it would be easy, if I was okay with someone I'm completely not attracted to or someone who would do something bad or violent to me taking a huge risk with my life, safety, and health...
Apparently because I'm in this situation I'm no longer allowed to have standards.
LOL I love how people answering this think I'm a guy! As if this could never happen to a woman. Well guess what, it did. Men aren't the only ones with this problem.
That's another thing that sucks about being a WOMAN with this problem--nobody takes it seriously and everyone thinks it's easy for women to get laid. Sure it would be easy, if I was okay with someone I'm completely not attracted to or someone who would do something bad or violent to me taking a huge risk with my life, safety, and health...
Apparently because I'm in this situation I'm no longer allowed to have standards.
Men make up, by far, the vast majority of individuals who have this problem.
Yeah...see...again...exactly what I'm talking about. It's unimaginable to you, great. I didn't really go to parties and I didn't play spin the bottle. Not everyone has the same experiences. You make a ton of assumptions about how people live their lives. Just because that was your experience doesn't mean it was someone else's and no I didn't go out of my way to avoid anything, it just never happened.
I never even came close to kissing someone. I've had many people I wanted to kiss, in fact ever since I was 12 I've always had a crush on someone. It just never happened and nobody I liked ever liked me back.
Yes, I have awful luck. You're quite a genius to figure that out, I must say.
I understand what you're saying. I never went to any parties in high school and college and it's not like I was turning down invitations. I just wasn't sociable and didn't hang out with people so I didn't get invited to stuff. Sure, things might've been different if I had been a more outgoing person, but that doesn't come naturally to me.
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Who gives a crap if you're a man or a woman. Immaterial. If you want to kiss, go out this weekend, have some fun, and make out with some. Jesus. This isn't freaking rocket science.
I don't understand why people are making any issue at all over that. Valentines day would have been a great day to get some practice in. I made out with two people that night. But any weekend would work.
If it's simply the kiss that is upsetting you - walk into a bar and ask someone to kiss you. Keep asking until someone kisses you. If it's a fairly busy bar - you'll probably be successful.
Open a kissing stand. Give the money to charity, or spend it on something delicious.
Done.
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