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Old 04-28-2015, 07:08 PM
 
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From everything I've seen, they cheat more. Might be even, but if I were going to gamble, I'd put it all on more.
I have had quite a variety of friends all over the US and over the world and I absolutely do not believe that women cheat more or as much.
Women don't think with their bits and pieces. Men often do.
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Old 04-28-2015, 07:08 PM
 
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I used to look around, kind of like at a car show ( Look. Don't touch )

Then I noticed that the women were about the age of my daughter.

Looker no more.
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Old 04-28-2015, 07:11 PM
 
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Nope.

My wife still brings it where it's needed so I really have no reason to desire others.

I can appreciate a pretty girl, but desire being "with her"?
Nah...I got that out of my system before a even bothered to settle down.

All the cheating talk is silly. From a former cheater I can tell you none of you can predict if you will.

All you can do is not put yourself in those situations.
I'm the same. I can see an incredibly handsome man. Even flirt back. But no. If I chose to be with a guy, it means there is something really great about him. Random sex just isn't interesting to me anyways. Sex with someone you love can be incredible. The intimacy.


And yes, nobody knows if they will do it and everyone is capable of it in the right circumstance.
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Old 04-29-2015, 11:48 AM
 
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I have had quite a variety of friends all over the US and over the world and I absolutely do not believe that women cheat more or as much.
Women don't think with their bits and pieces. Men often do.
Actually, it's because women don't think with their bits and pieces that they cheat. They tend to cheat to feel desirable and to form a connection with another person, not because they're horny and the hub isn't putting out.

Regardless, what I said for men goes for women, too: Women who are in love and who respect their partners don't cheat.

Really, anyone who is in love and respects a partner doesn't cheat. An adult brings up issues as they come up if his or her physical or emotional needs aren't met, out of respect for the relationship, the partner, and themselves. An adult talks to a partner about these things, and if the partner can't or won't work to come to some kind of resolution, then an adult ends the relationship or marriage. People with integrity do not slink around in the shadows like deceitful little weasels. They put the work into resolving issues with their partners, and if there is no resolution, they do the honorable thing and leave.
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Old 04-29-2015, 11:58 AM
 
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So I'm trying to be an understanding girlfriend, I've been cheated on before and I don't want it happening again. So here are my questions, men if your in a relationship do you still want to be with other women, I know the thought is there ok fine men like sex, but do you act on it? And if so how far will you go? Online chatting with strangers, escorts, strippers, porn, facebooking women, skyping strangers, do you have actual affairs? What do you do please be honest! Should I worry or trust my partner, he is very honest and open and I'm trying to understand a mans psychology but this is very difficult because as a woman I can say that I don't have any of these urges...
I think if you want to avoid being cheated on, you need to learn to meet the needs and wants of who you are dating/your partner.
Most guys have sexual urges if they are not satisfied they may seek it somewhere else behind your back.
They may have also other needs if you need to spend time with them? Satisfy them emotionally. tell them you love them, hug and cuddled with because I mean if you have a partner and can't do all that then who is he/she going to get it from, spend lots of time with them and avoid arguing and changing your partner.
To make it short you need to be compatible with your partner and find ways to retain him give him reasons to not consider cheating on you with another girl

If you withdraw sex then that may be a RED FLAG.
too much FIGHTING red flag
not supporting him RED FLAG AS WELL
Not spending enough time with him RED FLAG
Pushing him away RED FLAG


Now if you are uncomfortable with what he wants and needs and his personality then learn to find someone that is compatible with you
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Old 07-10-2015, 01:06 AM
 
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All men have urges to sleep with attractive women they see. Regardless if they are single or married. If they say otherwise they are lying or closet homosexuals. Now plenty of guys just enjoy the eye candy and brief fantasy, and do not act on those urges.
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Old 07-10-2015, 01:28 AM
 
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I am living proof that your statement is not a fact. Not all men are the same. There is that 1%. Stating that ALL men are the same is very ignorant.
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Old 07-10-2015, 01:31 AM
 
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I am living proof that your statement is not a fact. Not all men are the same. There is that 1%. Stating that ALL men are the same is very ignorant.
Yea hot woman walks by you and you dont blink an eye. Sure

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Old 07-10-2015, 01:57 AM
 
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[quote=peoplequalshxt;40353295]Mod cut: deleted post/QUOTE]

Huh?

One can treat their woman like a queen and still have urges when they see beautiful women. And btw, that is natural beauty. I hate visible makeup etc.

But like I said, a beautiful woman walks by you and you do not even blink an eye!

I believe you

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Old 07-10-2015, 02:10 AM
 
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Your significant other should be the only one that will attract your eyes. Why is that so hard?! If not why bother being in a relationship! !! True beauty is seen in the person your with. Next to nature and being true as a person.
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