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Looks are extremely important to both sexes. Its just that women dont want us men to know just how important it is.
If you were to take two guys, Guy "A" is very attractive with very good body, and Guy "B" is just okay, with an okay body; all other things like income, education, personality, mutual interests, etc. being EXACTLY the same, 99 out of 100 women would choose Guy "A". The one gal who would choose Guy "B" will do so because of her own personal shortcomings (lack of attractiveness, weight, past failed relationships, etc.).
There are a LOT of things people (of both sexes) look for in the opposite sex, being physically attracted to the other person is something most people just want.
Being good looking but having nothing to offer is, nearly as bad as being interesting but poorly groomed/looking like a cow's ass. Neither seems like a good matchup. Takes a combition of both looks and character.
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It might be a conversation starter, but I don't know if they dig long scares on the forehead going back.
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ok, check this out, some women are saying they dont just get with guys like that to sleep with them because of how they look. that is kind of hard to belive, for example, when i was in high school and after hs, there were women who would sleep with the pretty guy types. and many young college women at some parties, they would try to get the pretty boy men and would try get to know them based on that. they said things at parties like "oh wow he is so attractive, i have to get his number" or they would stare at the guys all day expecting him to approach her\them. but if women are not about looks, then how come the average looking guy gets left behind when those guys are around ? answer me that ?
Looks are extremely important to both sexes. Its just that women dont want us men to know just how important it is.
If you were to take two guys, Guy "A" is very attractive with very good body, and Guy "B" is just okay, with an okay body; all other things like income, education, personality, mutual interests, etc. being EXACTLY the same, 99 out of 100 women would choose Guy "A". The one gal who would choose Guy "B" will do so because of her own personal shortcomings (lack of attractiveness, weight, past failed relationships, etc.).
There are a LOT of things people (of both sexes) look for in the opposite sex, being physically attracted to the other person is something most people just want.
I would say that is somewhat true, BUT, there is a big difference in what different women find attractive. Sure there are the George Clooney and Brad Pitt types...guys that look like that won't ever have any issues finding a mate, unless they are a complete a-hole. But there have been many threads here where women have posted pics of who they considered to be "hot", and there are always a whole slew of "Ugh!!" responses. Different strokes for all of us.
The good looking guys get girls in high school. This breeds confidence. Confidence carries these guys well into their twenties. If they are counting on nothing but looks and confidence going into their 30's they aren't going to have much luck.
People misunderstand this. Of course females love great looking guys and get aroused by them. When they say women aren't only about looks, it means if we meet a guy who isn't a "10" but we feel chemistry in other ways, those attributes can bump his number up. With men, it's usually only about looks, and personality etc don't bump us up into the dateable category if you don't think we're hot looks-wise.
Why anyone thinks this means we don't appreciate or get aroused by beauty in males is beyond me.
Look at the posters guys and girls hang, our crushes....men put up posters of hot babes, while girls will also have posters of people like Mick Jagger or Steven Tyler, not classically good looking, in fact on the ugly side, but we still crush on them because they are sexy, dominant, etc. A guy would only crush on a hot girl's poster on the other hand. But it doesn't mean we wouldn't all f*** Brad Pitt or George Clooney if we got the chance.
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