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ok, check this out, some women are saying they dont just get with guys like that to sleep with them because of how they look. that is kind of hard to belive, for example, when i was in high school and after hs, there were women who would sleep with the pretty guy types. and many young college women at some parties, they would try to get the pretty boy men and would try get to know them based on that. they said things at parties like "oh wow he is so attractive, i have to get his number" or they would stare at the guys all day expecting him to approach her\them. but if women are not about looks, then how come the average looking guy gets left behind when those guys are around ? answer me that ?
SOME women are like that. Most are not. Those who are more likely to be so are usually in high school and college which are prime years of superficiality.
Good grief. Here's the thing - for many women, it takes more than just looks to keep our interest. That doesn't mean that we somehow find good looking guys unattractive. It means that we need the combination of looks and personality. EVERYONE should need that. If you only go for people because of their looks - chances are you aren't going to be very happy in the long run. And just because someone will sleep with someone - it doesn't mean that they will have a relationship with them.
What does any of this matter? Every woman is different. Some women know right away if they will sleep with someone. For others, sexual attraction grows over time. Some women need to have someone hot. Some women need to have someone that makes them laugh - and will grow to find an average guy hot if he has the right personality. Some women are really bad at choosing partners and some women pick great guys.
Even though it's not the answer you want, ... For me, I need to be attracted to both his looks and his personality/ brain.. And it's always been that way for me. If he can't hold a conversation .....- then the rest doesn't matter.
That's not what you asked. You asked if women are not easily "arused" by the sight of a naked man. What you're asking now is whether or not women are into looks. Two different things. Arousal is a very specific, easily defined, no-room-for-error physical reaction.
Haven't you ever found yourself intrigued by a woman's look, and yet not have an immediate boner? See the difference? (Sorry for the language, folks. OP sounds about 19 so I'm trying to talk in his language).
ok, check this out, some women are saying they dont just get with guys like that to sleep with them because of how they look. that is kind of hard to belive, for example, when i was in high school and after hs, there were women who would sleep with the pretty guy types. and many young college women at some parties, they would try to get the pretty boy men and would try get to know them based on that. they said things at parties like "oh wow he is so attractive, i have to get his number" or they would stare at the guys all day expecting him to approach her\them. but if women are not about looks, then how come the average looking guy gets left behind when those guys are around ? answer me that ?
Women bang good looking men for sport, but when they want to settle down, they find someone with a good job and lots of money, they get their fill of good looking losers in their "oat sewing" days but when it comes time to seal the deal, they marry a rich guy, even if he's humble looking.
People have different stages of life where their wants and desires change. This is nothing new. All women are not the same. These things happen and you have to move on.
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