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Old 05-09-2015, 12:03 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76 View Post
You can dress however you want to dress. How you dress is an extension of who you are. I'm just going off of what you are wearing in your pic - extremely short shorts and a very small tank top. We had a poster on here who used to dress similarly and she had a guy comment on how he didn't think they were right for each other based on the way that she dressed. Since the guy that you dated said that the two of you were too different - I thought this might be a possible reason. But like I said - I'm not telling you to change how you dress or change who you are. And I never called you a sl*t or anything like that. I wear skirts all the time.
That wasn't a tank top

 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:05 PM
 
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Umm....yes, that actually is the norm.

It's natural to have some chemistry between people when things are very fresh and all you have to go off of is attraction and a few shared surface qualities, this definitely explains him holding your hand and kissing you. Once you get to spend more time with someone some of their finer qualities, tendencies, beliefs, and habits start shining through, it's at this time you start to fine tune the people you may be dating. Some people are overly picky, but that's their choice and we are free to date whomever we want.

I won't propose to know for sure, but it seems like your 2 years out of the dating game left you a little dreamy eyed, dating can be cruel and harsh, be thankful he replied at all.
Okay then I'm in the minority! I don't just kiss because it's "fun" to kiss! I kiss someone when I like them! If I don't feel chemistry when we kiss, I let them know and don't don't do it again.
 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:08 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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That wasn't a tank top
Sorry - very tight, small shirt.
 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:09 PM
 
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it's called a v neck t shirt.
 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:10 PM
 
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He obviously didn't see the match as you did ; that is common.
 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:10 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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OP, not sure why you are fretting about this unless it's happening to you (guys disappearing) repeatedly. You're a beautiful woman and my guess is that you shouldn't have any problems with most other guys. Well, unless you're psychotic.
 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Originally Posted by Naomi Manischewitz View Post
it's called a v neck t shirt.
Does this matter? I'm not trying to offend you at all. I don't have a problem with the way you dress. I think everyone should dress however they feel makes them happy. I'm just pointing out that this might have been the "difference" for him. It might not have. We'll never know and it doesn't matter because even if it was - all it means is that he isn't the right person for you.
 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:12 PM
 
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Your "V" is a bit stretched out if that is supposed to be a Vneck Tshirt.

He made the decision to end things, that should be enough by now to move on
and find someone else and quit trying to figure out something you will never
know every minute detail about.
 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:15 PM
 
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OP, not sure why you are fretting about this unless it's happening to you (guys disappearing) repeatedly. You're a beautiful woman and my guess is that you shouldn't have any problems with most other guys. Well, unless you're psychotic.

 
Old 05-09-2015, 12:23 PM
 
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Your "V" is a bit stretched out if that is supposed to be a Vneck Tshirt.
I thought it was a tank top in the pic, too.

OP, my 2 cents as a dude who's been on a lot of group hikes. I've never seen a woman with big boobs wear a low-cut top. The few women like that who ever show up on a group hike wear the higher-neck kind of t-shirts, or a button-down collared shirt, cuz they don't want everyone staring at their chest the whole time. It's a choice. A woman in a tank top with your body would be very distracting on a hike. That's just our nature as dudes, we can't help it when boobage is being flashed around. Sorry if this isn't PC. Just being real.
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