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The fact of the matter is that you'll never really know what the deal was. He could have been honest with you and he could have just thought that you were too different, or it could be that he has a wife or a girlfriend, or he just wanted to get some and you didn't give it, or his ex could have called him and wanted to get back together, etc. Just have a good cry and move on.
Okay I think this is where I defer from most of the posters here (a few of you seem to share the same opinion though). To me holding hands and kissing over and over again is leading someone on thinking there is something there. I see kissing as something warm and intimate and something you don't just do with anyone. I actually do not kiss period if I'm not feeling it with someone. I'm definitely not someone who like just goes to a bar, drinks, and wants to make out with any cute guy because it's fun.
Anyway, I'm kind of over it but like this topic LOL.
And about finding someone hotter, probably but the guys I go for (obviously I was wrong with this one), go for the whole package not just a hot girl. I'm attractive but I'm definitely not hot. I know I'm a package and offer a lot.
Do you actually KNOW this about him, or were you assigning it to him because YOU liked him???
That's why the way you're doing it leads you to this place of sadness and disbelief
Well obviously my intuition was wrong this time but he doesn't seem like someone who just goes for hot girls. He's a smart guy, attractive (to me anyway) but not exactly someone who stops traffic, and told me what qualities he looks for in a woman.
I'm not exactly bad looking...
(Not trying to sound like I'm all that but I know I'm a good looking woman) http://i60.tinypic.com/k1s0ew.jpg
In reading your OP, my gut thought was that he's the type of guy that comes off as real agreeable and such with all the hand holding and kissing and whatnot and most likely since you didn't put out he bounced.... I don't mean that to be harsh, but some guys put on the whole "connection" thing just to seem agreeable enough to see about getting laid.
I could be way off and I hope I am and maybe he just wasn't feeling it as much as you and was being polite........
Either way, I wouldn't waste too much energy on it... I know it sucks to have something you think is a connection to blow up in your face.... that really sucks... cause we don't connect easily with others... and when we feel like we do it feels good.
Well obviously my intuition was wrong this time but he doesn't seem like someone who just goes for hot girls. He's a smart guy, attractive (to me anyway) but not exactly someone who stops traffic, and told me what qualities he looks for in a woman.
I'm not exactly bad looking...
(Not trying to sound like I'm all that but I know I'm a good looking woman) http://i60.tinypic.com/k1s0ew.jpg
I know I look pregnant there though lol
I'm 30.
I'm sure the right guy is just around the corner<OP.
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but he doesn't seem like someone who just goes for hot girls. He's a smart guy, attractive (to me anyway) but not exactly someone who stops traffic, and told me what qualities he looks for in a woman. 
