How to approach a guy for a hook up (woman, kissing, sex)

[Opin_Yunated]

Originally Posted by timberline742

Ask him out for drinks and let nature take its course. The usual way people go.

This. No need to make it complicated.

"Hey _____ , you should invite me out sometime "

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by Opin_Yunated

This. No need to make it complicated.

"Hey _____ , you should invite me out sometime "

I think sticking with asking him out for drinks to catch up is the best idea.

I find it offensive to tell someone they should ask you out.

[Opin_Yunated]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

I think sticking with asking him out for drinks to catch up is the best idea.

I find it offensive to tell someone they should ask you out.

It's not about you.

[skywalker2014]

Just invite the guy for a few drinks at your place. In the conversation just state the "no strings attached" thing.

And play Rod Stewart "Tonight I'm yours" in the middle of the reunion.

He will catch on.

[jane_sm1th73]

Originally Posted by MissmamaAnnie

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I would like to approach him again but I don't know how to go about it.I was thinking to send him a message on fb.what should I say to him? I changed my mind? should I just invite him at my place? please no judgements.thanks

How 'bout just wear your usual attire and walk right up to him, look him in the eye, and say "Wanna f*ck"?

Please make sure you're on birth control. I'm in Metro DC. I'm supporting quite enough AFDC recipients, thank you. Most women who play in order to get on the wagon later report that the ROI ("return on investment") isn't worth it. That's why their claimants sleep tripled up on mattresses on the floor and drink Mountain Dew for breakfast.

[Mr_Geek]

Text him or message him on fb and just say "Netflix and chill?"

[Raena77]

Let's get naked, come on baby you make me hot.

[Talkinhead]

Absoletely disgusting.


If men want to approach women for a sex, I don't see a problem with it, but a woman needs to show a little more class. imo

Women these days have absolutely no class.

[Gabriella Geramia]

With guys like that, it doesn't matter what your intentions are or how you ask him. If you hit him up and he thinks you're attractive, he will try and get in to your pants.

[Star10101]

Originally Posted by Mr_Geek

Text him or message him on fb and just say "Netflix and chill?"

I never realised what that phrase meant, until someone explained it on a tv programme I watched recently. But then again, I don't know anything about how the dating scene works these days - I haven't dated for 20-odd years!!