I need help. I'm tired of my husband making me work!

[monumentus]

Originally Posted by oceangaia

And 16 months is not even close to 4 years, nmaybe someone needs to look up the definition of "inception"?

Yes maybe you should. Let me help you:

noun
the establishment or starting point of an institution or activity.
"she has been on the board since its inception two years ago"

The "Van" this couple use has been live for about a year now. Its "INCEPTION" was one year ago. They have been together over 16 months. Get it now?

Maybe someone needs to look up the definition of "conception" which appears to be what you think I mean.

[oceangaia]

Originally Posted by monumentus

Yes maybe you should. Let me help you:

The "Van" this couple use has been live for about a year now. Its "INCEPTION" was one year ago. They have been together over 16 months. Get it now?

Maybe someone needs to look up the definition of "conception" which appears to be what you think I mean.

And yet, in post 56 you said:

Originally Posted by monumentus

I was talking about their business which has been going on LONG before they got married - 4 years from concept to implementation and then more time since that to get to successful.

So in that post the business was going on much longer than they were together and now it has been going on less.

[StPaulGal]

Originally Posted by Sparkledove

Hi it keeps taking me a while to read the posts. Ty to everyone helping me

Well honestly we never talked about finances very much before we got married. This is actually his second career. He has a college degree and stuff but the started off in advertising and did that for eight years. Then he left that job and had savings then worked in and out of food places trying to learn how to craft his own iuce cream and sweets. He's actually 31. We met on OKC and dated for 8 months before we got engaged and married

As far as money goes I think I can afford to stay home. What's funny is that he told me he wanted kids right away since it was something he always wanted and he was envious if all his friends who had that. But now he barely seems to be pushing for it. We talk about it but suddenly its not a rush. I mean when we got together he promised he would take care of me and also promised my family he would to and i don't feel taken care of. Also he's not as affectionate either which bothers me and the truck and business gwets most of the attention and I don't really anymore.

I haven't read the whole thread, but when I got to this post I almost threw up! So here we have a 30 year old grown-azz man dating a little girl in high school. Thank your lucky stars this dude hasn't knocked you up yet--there is still a chance for you to have a future.

[RcHydro]

Have a kid. Then you will stay home. Then you will wish you were back on the truck working. Then again, Do not have a kid, because I dont think its going to work out.

[monumentus]

Originally Posted by oceangaia

And yet, in post 56 you said: So in that post the business was going on much longer than they were together and now it has been going on less.

Different post. You are moving goal posts now to dodge your error in not understanding the difference between inception and conception.

I repeat - my position here is that she has been working with this guy on this project since inception up to a point where she describes it as "a success". Even through times where the whole project has changed beyond what she signed up for.

And people are telling her to be more supportive. I do not get their point. How can she be any more supportive than that?