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See, that's the thing. We know there are women who complain because they are just being friendly while a guy might think she is flirting. So best thing is to take it like that, she's just being friendly. That woman would then have to put a little bit of effort to be as direct as guys usually are with women. I would expect a teenager to send hints and clues, clear her throat, play with her hair, etc. in hopes of having a guy take her out.
Also, this. Except in my examples. I give myself 99% of the blame in those scenarios.
Looking back, I've missed so many I've lost count. And those are only the ones where I came to my senses later.
I've discussed a few recently. Here's some of the more egregious ones:
(in a rural town where college kids are known to escape into soybean patches to have sex)
Her: So...I'd really like to learn about soybeans...
Me: (launches into scientific definition of, and practical uses for, soybeans)
Her: ......
To my credit, I wasn't aware of the reputation of our local soybean patches, but I should have put things into context.
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A neighbor below me knocks on my door unprovoked...
Her: I wanted to go see a movie tonight, but I don't want to go alone.
Me: There's nothing wrong with going to the movies alone!
Ouch.
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(again, in college)
A girl from a dorm 1/4 of a mile away knocked on my door...
Her: I ran out of beer and I'm REALLY looking to get drunk, do you have any?
Me: (doesn't invite her in, grabs a beer and hands it to her) Here you go!
That one made me hate myself for a while.
ROTFL!!!!
Thanks for sharing and sticking with the thread questions.
That did not happen. If it did she is mentally unbalanced.
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I told a man that I'd woken up that morning to a sex dream about him.
I gave him LOTS of attention. I did...scenes (yeah, it's that stuff I'm trying not to be all explicit about, sue me I don't care) with him almost exclusively at parties for a while.
And yet. Still. He was unsure.
I finally had to literally send him a message that said, "I get the feeling I need to be more clear with you on this. If you are waiting for my consent, you have it."
It took three and a half months to develop from in-depth hours long conversations at bar-social events, to public party interaction, to "I'm now having sex dreams about you" to "So...are you waiting for me to sign a waiver, or what....?"
Hint: If a woman tells you that she had a sexytime dream about you, she pretty definitely wants to have sex with you. It's a green light. Make your move.
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Hint: If a woman tells you that she had a sexytime dream about you, she pretty definitely wants to have sex with you. It's a green light. Make your move.
Sadly this is one of those things 99% (its a fact!) of us dudes will never experience.
Sadly this is one of those things 99% (its a fact!) of us dudes will never experience.
You'll never hear it! ROTFL!!!
I've been told that more than once! Haha!
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