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Is there a reason a woman cannot take out the trash purchase her own items out of a magazine or move the cat litter?
No there is not and there is no reason a woman cannot just ask her husband to do whatever it is instead of playing these stupid little games. Straight forward, to the point, clear, concise, saves a lot of time, energy and frustration for all involved.
OMG - what world do you live in? When a woman comes out and asks - tells - a man what she wants in terms of a chore that is HIS to do - she's a NAG!
So, she really can't win - because the only time a guy comes close to doing what a woman wants is if she says "F**k me NOW" - she won't get it the WAY she wants it, but she'll get it the way HE does.
B.S.! Stop feeling sorry for yourself by thinking this way - if it were true YOU could go to the nastiest woman and "get some" whenever you want! Oh...something stops you? Yeah, that's what I thought...
How did I become part of the analysis? How am I feeling sorry for myself? I actually think very well of myself and have had no trouble with women. Not sure what you're reading into or what's going on internally over there.
Me mentioning the nastiest woman was to point out that since women have no problem getting laid, her motive was likely one other than sex.
Generally I'm not very good at giving or receiving hints. I don't usually make moves on men but when I do they usually give me an averse or positive reaction. Once I took this guy's hat and put it on. He snatched the hat from me and said "don't play hat games". I took it as not interested and moved on. Another time I looked a gym trainer directly in the eyes and smiled. The next time I saw him he locked eyes with me, smiled, and wouldn't take them off until I walked away. I took it as interested and proceeded to talk to him. I was probably too direct when I asked him to work out with me in front of my trainer. They gave me crap for that afterward lol.
-I asked a guy what his name was.
-I smiled at a guy.
-I e-mailed a guy and put a smiley face in the message.
-I gave a guy a compliment.
-I made sure I appeared some place at the same time I knew the guy in question would.
Honestly, I think they got the hints. Who wouldn't??
The next time I saw him he locked eyes with me, smiled, and wouldn't take them off until I walked away. I took it as interested and proceeded to talk to him. I was probably too direct when I asked him to work out with me in front of my trainer. They gave me crap for that afterward lol.
Yeah, sometimes it starts that process where you're like, well, she did this, so maybe it's okay for me to take it to the next step and do that. I've had times myself when a woman is overly forward and it's okay to the point that you just go with it when you normally wouldn't.
Women make dating hard instead of being obvious they throws hints around and play games. Open your mouth or be gone.
You are quite the conundrum.
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Also, as flattering as it, I don't like it when women approach me. It doesn't feel right and it shows she's aggressive. Again, it's just my opinion and you don't have to agree.
How did I become part of the analysis? How am I feeling sorry for myself? I actually think very well of myself and have had no trouble with women. Not sure what you're reading into or what's going on internally over there.
Me mentioning the nastiest woman was to point out that since women have no problem getting laid, her motive was likely one other than sex.
Hm...nah. Women do pursue for sex sometimes. The kicker is, it's men that they are ATTRACTED TO.
They don't wake up one morning like, "I need to get me some!" and head on down to the local man-market looking for any ol' piece of lumber. If she was actually trying to seduce him, and she may well have been doing if the story is true as told, well, she's seen him before and planned the whole thing with him specifically in mind.
In fact, planning and executing the attempt may have been a turn on in and of itself for her. Mild exhibitionism.
Women only have "no problem getting laid" if they completely disregard all of their standards and take whatever comes along, and I've not really known many women who do that unless they are very drunk or something. Your premise presumes that every willing potential partner is equal. They're not.
OMG - what world do you live in? When a woman comes out and asks - tells - a man what she wants in terms of a chore that is HIS to do - she's a NAG!
So, she really can't win - because the only time a guy comes close to doing what a woman wants is if she says "F**k me NOW" - she won't get it the WAY she wants it, but she'll get it the way HE does.
OMGoodness, I live in the real world of being an independant woman who shares her life with a good man in a home that has chores that need done, NOT *his work or her work*. It is really not my concern that some women don't have a man like Mr. CSD however, the highlighted is perhaps the type of attitude that ensures that you actually are a nag who cannot do anything on your own.
OMG - what world do you live in? When a woman comes out and asks - tells - a man what she wants in terms of a chore that is HIS to do - she's a NAG!
So, she really can't win - because the only time a guy comes close to doing what a woman wants is if she says "F**k me NOW" - she won't get it the WAY she wants it, but she'll get it the way HE does.
I have never had this issue ever with a person worth giving a damn about.
The naggers are the ones who demand and throw expectations on top of everything, not the reasonable ones who don't prejudge every single "need" they may have from another
Hm...nah. Women do pursue for sex sometimes. The kicker is, it's men that they are ATTRACTED TO.
They don't wake up one morning like, "I need to get me some!" and head on down to the local man-market looking for any ol' piece of lumber. If she was actually trying to seduce him, and she may well have been doing if the story is true as told, well, she's seen him before and planned the whole thing with him specifically in mind.
In fact, planning and executing the attempt may have been a turn on in and of itself for her. Mild exhibitionism.
Women only have "no problem getting laid" if they completely disregard all of their standards and take whatever comes along, and I've not really known many women who do that unless they are very drunk or something. Your premise presumes that every willing potential partner is equal. They're not.
Even if some potential partners are better than others, we're talking about "can" rather than "would" here. You are talking about would a woman step down and have sex with a man below her standards. I am talking about can she do it? Is it an option? My answer is yes and that is why I wrote what I wrote: Yes, they can - even though they may not want to do it.
If it was would they do, I would agree with you.
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