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from my observations humans seem to slow down and lose interest in dating / mating after child bearing age or men over 50?
it reminds me of how other mammals behave when they are at the peak of their breeding age and when they complete their cycle?
kind of like when the Salmon fight to go upstream to fertilize the eggs, then when they complete their mission they die or never return to the sea.
or during Springtime when the birds go crazy trying to find a mate and build a nest.
when women have children they have a different attitude, they seem to feel they completed their mission in life and the feeling of finding love and relationships seems to die down, not the same as when they were young, plus the males tend to lose interest the older the women gets.
This is not my experience at all. People never lose the need to live and feel love.
i did the math and figured that i've cooked approximately 15,000 meals in 20 years. If a meteor falls on the man and i find myself single again, i'm done. I'll have an fwb or two and live in a tiny house with everything just how i want it. I'm not interested in interviewing people and auditioning to be someone's new cook and laundress.
I married for the second and last time at 50. I've been on both sides of the fence and back again for more. I completely understand why some people don't want to deal with it again. I didn't.
I thought I was "done" until I met my husband. Then I found myself experiencing a depth of love like I had never experienced before. He makes my life better/fuller/richer in so many ways and sharing my life with him is easy and joyful. It's a beautiful thing with the right person.
Now he has completely ruined me for anyone else so if I ever find myself alone again, I will be "done" for real. You can put a fork in it.
Awww..This is sweet. This is what I want. I need him to just show up without having to do the dance.
I personally think we all want companionship throughout our lives and it's just a matter of whether we're still able to attract it.
They totally are!
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