Eye contact question (average, perfect, gf, second)

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by NWGirl74

Especially when she's already asked to speak to him.

Yup! that's a sure sign for me

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

I don't know either but it feels that way. She's usually with her friends. Since too much time is going by in going to circumvent it and get talking if I can.

If she's with friends in some strange way it's probably better as if you chat to them as a group it shows you are confident and not intimidated. If I'm on a night out and I get talking to one and she's with friends that's what I always do as being both friendly and showing my sense of humour goes a long way

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

Yup! that's a sure sign for me





If she's with friends in some strange way it's probably better as if you chat to them as a group it shows you are confident and not intimidated. If I'm on a night out and I get talking to one and she's with friends that's what I always do as being both friendly and showing my sense of humour goes a long way

We I hope you're right it seemed like a sure sign and yes I will talk to her with her friends, that might be the only way.she's not alone enough.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

We I hope you're right it seemed like a sure sign and yes I will talk to her with her friends, that might be the only way.she's not alone enough.

What have you got to lose?, the fact that's she's given you these signals means you're half way there mate

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

What have you got to lose?, the fact that's she's given you these signals means you're half way there mate

I hope so, I just was trying to wait for shes alone but I might not be able to do that.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

I hope so, I just was trying to wait for shes alone but I might not be able to do that.

Whenever she gives you another look or sign and once you are confident then go for it regardless of who's she's with

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

Whenever she gives you another look or sign and once you are confident then go for it regardless of who's she's with

I will. I have hesitated for too long. She said she wanted to talk so I will. I know I know I can't hesitate for too long.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

I will. I have hesitated for too long. She said she wanted to talk so I will. I know I know I can't hesitate for too long.

You have and I'm surprised she's still interested in honest mate

I'll look forward to the update

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

You have and I'm surprised she's still interested in honest mate

I'll look forward to the update

I don't see her everytime or she's on her way out.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Swan Dive

I don't see her everytime or she's on her way out.

Just make it count mate when the time DOES come

Best of luck

[Swan Dive]

Originally Posted by NWGirl74

Or it's a convenient excuse to sit back and do nothing. The last guy I dated came up to me while I was out with a group of friends and made it clear he was interested. My friends urged me to give him a chance.

My best friend (male) is fond of saying that to win the girl, you have to also win the friends. He's not shy about approaching someone who catches his eye if she's with friends. If she ends up not being interested, he moves on. And he doesn't sit around wondering what if? And the reason he does this? Because of one he wanted to approach but didn't because she was with friends and he never saw her again.

This is some good stuff here. I hear you and I agree