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Old 05-23-2016, 08:18 PM
 
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Ask yourself this: If an average looking woman started orbiting you, staring at you, and making small talk with you, then randomly acted hot and cold towards you, would your attraction to her increase with each passing day? Would your "buying temperature" get pumped the longer she did this?

Honestly, you are making a fool out of yourself. If I were in her shoes, I would be embarrassed for you.
So do you think she thinks I like her? I mean She was all flirty before and now its dropped off or here and there. Is she wondering what the F am I doing? she must think somethings up

I have no idea what to do here I mean if I ask now or what?

I feel like asking but I don't

How am I making a fool of myself? waiting this long

So you're referencing me acting hot or cold? or her I assume me, so you think what she given up?
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Old 05-23-2016, 08:28 PM
 
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You do know why it's slowed down don't you mate?
I have no idea if this is saveable? she looks at me some days positive and some days mixed but not really negative

she was giving me signs before and everybody backed me on it. I don't know what to think now

This should be easy why I so confused

her friend keep smiling at me but I don't think she is interested she is just being nice

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Old 05-23-2016, 09:11 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It's I need to flirt or socialize more to pump her buying temperature.
EW, gross.

No. She is not confused. She is not into you. I will tell you that if she bold enough to compete in a bikini contest, she is bold enough to be receptive to and even mirror your advances.

The behaviors you have described are NOT confusing. She is not interested in your flirting with her.
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Old 05-23-2016, 09:13 PM
 
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EW, gross.

No. She is not confused. She is not into you. I will tell you that if she bold enough to compete in a bikini contest, she is bold enough to be receptive to and even mirror your advances.

The behaviors you have described are NOT confusing. She is not interested in your flirting with her.
Did you even read any of it before? all the early stuff, everyone thinks she is or at least was for a while.
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Old 05-23-2016, 09:29 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Did you even read any of it before? all the early stuff, everyone thinks she is or at least was for a while.
Yes!!!! Unfortunately, I've read every single post.

Her behavior NOW is what matters, and she is not into you. You would not be confused if she were. You should stop trying to keep this idea on life support.

Move on with your life.
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Old 05-23-2016, 09:55 PM
 
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Yes!!!! Unfortunately, I've read every single post.

Her behavior NOW is what matters, and she is not into you. You would not be confused if she were. You should stop trying to keep this idea on life support.

Move on with your life.
So you agree she was? I think she was too. I also think her asking her friends about me last thursday , makes me think its not off the table just yet. If she interested before its probably not totally dead. She does get close in to me when we speak.

I'm not totally convinced thats she not. But what did this stalling totally tank it? If it did, then I I'll try revive it like I said Im going to try to get it going again.

This is the dumbest situation I have been in a while
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Old 05-23-2016, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm not totally convinced thats she not. But what did this stalling totally tank it? like I said Im going to try to get it going again
That would be like shoving more money into a broken Coke machine.
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Old 05-23-2016, 09:59 PM
 
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That would be like shoving more money into a broken Coke machine.
No. I also think her asking her friends about me last thursday , makes me think its not off the table just yet

A few weeks ago I thought she was cold.But our talks went well. If she's no longer into me then why does she keep looking at me?
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Old 05-23-2016, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No. I also think her asking her friends about me last thursday , makes me think its not off the table just yet
That ^^ kind of delusion is the very reason you're ruminating on this and why this thread has almost 1,300 posts.

She keeps looking at you because you are looking at her. Whatever. Think what you want. The depth of your obtuseness here is, frankly, alarming.
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Old 05-23-2016, 10:05 PM
 
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That ^^ kind of delusion is the very reason you're ruminating on this and why this thread has almost 1,300 posts.

She keeps looking at you because you are looking at her. Whatever. Think what you want. The depth of your obtuseness here is, frankly, alarming.

You're not there you dont know what you;re talking about
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