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Londoncowboy30 · 05-07-2016, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by FelixTheCat

It didn't go well. I messaged her again and she said she is sick, and said she would have to make it another time. I just said, "I'm sorry, hope you feel better soon."

I don't like to waste time going after people who give excuses. We've all been through that and it's almost always a waste of time. The only exception is when they are specific about setting up a new date time. Anyway, balls in her court. Time to move on.

Mate she went out of her way to talk to you the first time around so give her the benefit of the doubt

AlfredB1979 · 05-07-2016, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by NWGirl74

Maybe she really is sick, it's not an excuse to get out of seeing you and the last thing she wants to think about while puking her guts out is her social calendar. Just a thought.

Possibly, but if she really was digging OP, she'd have requested a house call with chicken soup in tow. True story: A guest services gal at a theater I frequent for side work told me that she was sick all spring break. I told her if I had known, I'd have brought her soup and hoped her dad didn't shoot me. She quickly replied, "How old do I have to be for you to come over?"

It is what it is. (17 is legal in TX, FWIW.)

FelixTheCat · 07-14-2016, 10:50 PM

It's been a little over 2 months and I have an update. I hate it when I read a thread and never find out what hapened. So anyway, I didn't hear back after about a week and I deleted my profile. Almost 2 months go by and I put my profile back up.

Then a couple days later I got a message from her saying she wanted to message me about dinner and my profile was gone. I messaged her back and said I thought she forgot about it and I ended up deleting my profile because I wasn't really using the site, which I wasn't. We briefly caught up and set up dinner for this Saturday. She messaged me tonight to confirm and I messaged her back asking what kind of food she likes. So I'll do a search for a highly rated restaurant based on what she likes and take her there. Should be interesting.