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I have to admit I'm kind of stupid when it comes to meeting people. I mean when it comes to understanding people's motives when just acquaintances.
Anyway. I met someone on a hike and we just chatted for 5 or 10 mins she seemed cool but it didn't get very deep into convo.
A couple weeks later I got a message from her on okc. It just said hi I met u on the hike. I forgot your name. I hope you're having fun here. I replied w a hi and my name. Asked her name agsin and commented of one of her photos. W her horse. She loled and answered rhe question about her horse and I Disney reply.
I guess this is a clear green light about at least being friends. What would others here think about this ? How do you see her motives?
I have to admit I'm kind of stupid when it comes to meeting people. I mean when it comes to understanding people's motives when just acquaintances.
Anyway. I met someone on a hike and we just chatted for 5 or 10 mins she seemed cool but it didn't get very deep into convo.
A couple weeks later I got a message from her on okc. It just said hi I met u on the hike. I forgot your name. I hope you're having fun here. I replied w a hi and my name. Asked her name agsin and commented of one of her photos. W her horse. She loled and answered rhe question about her horse and I Disney reply.
I guess this is a clear green light about at least being friends. What would others here think about this ? How do you see her motives?
Well I thought OKC is a dating site and not a friendship one so.......... Should be self explanatory mate
She's on OKC, her motive is to find someone to date.
What you didn't say is: Do you have any interest in her at all? Your opinion on that subject should be more important to you than her motivations. If so, you should follow up and get to know her. Ask her for 'coffee' or something. There is no particular obligation. Just be friendly. If you decide you aren't interested in her, or she isn't interested in you, there's no shame in it.
Or maybe get her number and call her because I'm afraid of what your written messages to her might look like.
Lol. I get why u said that. Besides general social retardeness. I'm on my phone so I'm not editing. She's the opposite tho. But opposites attract right?
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