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Old 03-10-2017, 02:31 PM
 
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This is your husband? ((hugs)) I am so sorry. I will pray for you both

Just want to say...you need to care that he is looking at porn, and yes, those are real girls just like those girls on instagram. Porn feeds this. Either get rid of the computer like you should, or at the very least, place it into the living room for a while. He might be able to beat this perverted compulsion. If not, you'll have to forbid bringing porn into the home via a computer. Blessings to you. Hang in there
He's her husband not her child so she really can't forbid him from doing anything. If a grown man wants to do something he's going to do it, he has to want to stop on his own. I'm not pro-porn but this kind of advice is just silly.

Anyway, even if she got rid of the home computer he still would have his cell phone and most likely access to a computer at work so that's not solving anything. OP never even said he was obsessed with porn so this isn't even the issue.
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Old 03-10-2017, 03:25 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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Sounds like his sexual needs aren't being met at home...
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Old 03-10-2017, 03:36 PM
 
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Some people are addicts. Maybe he is one. Trust your gut.
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Old 03-10-2017, 04:14 PM
 
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He sounds a bit immature. And strange. But you also sound a bit that way too.
Yeah, there's never been an occasion where I needed to describe myself by my height and bra size.
Hard to get a meaningful relationship out of so much superficial going on.
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Old 03-10-2017, 05:35 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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This is your husband? ((hugs)) I am so sorry. I will pray for you both

Just want to say...you need to care that he is looking at porn, and yes, those are real girls just like those girls on instagram. Porn feeds this. Either get rid of the computer like you should, or at the very least, place it into the living room for a while. He might be able to beat this perverted compulsion. If not, you'll have to forbid bringing porn into the home via a computer. Blessings to you. Hang in there


Sounds like he's already busy compulsively beating his demons.

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Old 03-10-2017, 05:39 PM
 
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Yeah, there's never been an occasion where I needed to describe myself by my height and bra size.
Hard to get a meaningful relationship out of so much superficial going on.
+1.

You can't possibly be cheated on if you are a certain height & size.
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Old 03-10-2017, 05:51 PM
 
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Yes. And come to North Carolina
Sure she could be mean with an IQ of 60 and smells bad, but as long as she feels good in the dark...what the hell, welcome to NC! Amiiright?
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Old 03-10-2017, 05:57 PM
 
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Sounds like he's already busy compulsively beating his demons.
Oh, they call it a demon now, huh? LOL


Good to see you Mags!
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Old 03-10-2017, 05:57 PM
 
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First poster, not returning to comment in 3-2-1 ....
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Old 03-10-2017, 06:04 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yeah, there's never been an occasion where I needed to describe myself by my height and bra size.
Hard to get a meaningful relationship out of so much superficial going on.
I was thinking the same thing, but I suppose she mentioned it to provide the contrast between her and the short big breasted fat women he was enjoying. At least I'll give the benefit of the doubt on that front.

In terms of what the OP did, yeah, it was sleazy and creepy. I don't think it's enough to divorce over, if so, so much for the sanctity of marriage. If the guy is apologetic about it and stops that behavior than it should be something to work through.

Just my humble opinion.
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