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Hello all. Ok to begin with... I will tell you why I'm being insecure it's all begin after finding out my husband constantly checks out his co worker Facebook page and me catching him look at girls from his faculty (on FB as well). I used to be very confident about my looks too, I'm a 34D 5'7" slim figure woman and all his friends kept telling him that I'm attractive. But the girls (from work) I caught him looking was short and fat. So tell me how can I not be insecure. I recently also found out he had a fake Instagram account which he added "Real Instagram Girls" and click likes on all the big breasted girls in their bikini pictures!!!!!! I could care less if he watches porno or look at pornstar naked pictures online, BUT these are real girls with real account on Instagram. And so i start going through his other accounts and found 2 comments he made which really pisses me off to a point that I just wanted to leave him. Ok so the comments are both for a pictures saying "husband not getting enough sex from wife" - He wrote "At times calling an escort is actually cheaper....True story" and the second comment - he wrote "had sex only 12 times a year (which is not true!!!) I could have save up and get an escort so my sex life is 100 times better".
WTF!!!!! So I confronted him and he said it's just a funny website and people post funny response, also he said I wouldn't put out so he was mad and wrote something stupid online. Anyone here can tell me whether I'm overrracting so does he really means he will do this in the future?!!! I would appreciate to get an opinion from both men and women!! I asked him what he meant by "true story" he said he heard it from a guy before and that's why he wrote that...seriously...is that believable?
I was just so disgusted by his actions, I chose him as my husband is because I thought he was caring and will only love me, find me attractive but now he's showing me the other side of him!!!! Should I leave him before he cheats on me?! Help please!!!!
Not to sound hard and a question that I don't expect you to answer here but to yourself: Do you service your husband's sexual needs? I ask as this as his behavior points towards not "getting it" from you, however if you do service you husband's sexual needs (then he's a jerk to put it mildly) which you need to at least take some sought of action.
I was thinking the same thing, but I suppose she mentioned it to provide the contrast between her and the short big breasted fat women he was enjoying. At least I'll give the benefit of the doubt on that front.
In terms of what the OP did, yeah, it was sleazy and creepy. I don't think it's enough to divorce over, if so, so much for the sanctity of marriage. If the guy is apologetic about it and stops that behavior than it should be something to work through.
Just my humble opinion.
LOL @ "short big breasted fat women he was enjoying".
And I quit giving the benefit of the doubt a long time ago, always seems to come back to bite me in the ass.
Umm....I have no clue what you are talking about. No one said she is going to FORCE him to do anything and that is a bit absurd eh?
She mentioned pornography. Only you have called him so into porn it is an obsession.
I know his compulsion with instagram girls has went so far as to comment on multiple womens profiles aka photos. That is a compulsion. Again, no mention of the amount of times hes looked at porn. We've all done it before. You also called him a child, which he is not.
You are planting alot of falsehoods in this thread with your imagination. No need to dramatize it. Back to the OP
Isn't forbidding porn on the home computer the same as trying to force him into doing something he doesn't want to do (not look at women.)? You did say he had a perverted compulsion so how is that different than an obsession? We're using different words but they essentially have the same meaning.
Hello all. Ok to begin with... I will tell you why I'm being insecure it's all begin after finding out my husband constantly checks out his co worker Facebook page and me catching him look at girls from his faculty (on FB as well)....e wrote "At times calling an escort is actually cheaper....True story" and the second com...
He's cheating on you.
IMO most men in academia are whores and they have a lot of access to pretty girls. I'm not even sure why some of them bother to get married. If you are a real person, get started on the divorce preparations. But you may want to be 100% sure, so hire a private investigator. They're not that expensive.
Cheater, entertaining or hooking up with hookers. Pig. STD test for yourself. Get a fake Instagram yourself and get a lot of followers you can buy them for $70 then hit on him...see what happens. Tell him where you live in your byline. Catch him, get a lawyer....
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Lol I like Breaking band's comment.
I don't think deceiving him with a fake Instagram account is necessary. He's a guy who needs the boot!
Don't judge me too harshly, but when I felt something was going wrong, I downloaded Refog keylogger on my partner's device. This tool records every keystroke on the device it's downloaded to. And to my great disappointment, I turned out to be right. I instantly broke up with the cheater.
How does that work? you need access to his phone and download it there ... how?? And do you remove it later on or it just stays there ?? How come he doesn't see it?
Don't judge me too harshly, but when I felt something was going wrong, I downloaded Refog keylogger on my partner's device. This tool records every keystroke on the device it's downloaded to. And to my great disappointment, I turned out to be right. I instantly broke up with the cheater.
I'm not judging you personally, but I wouldn't want to feel like I have to go to these measures. Sad stuff.
I'm not judging you personally, but I wouldn't want to feel like I have to go to these measures. Sad stuff.
I think nobody would want to have to do this or think of it or do it lightly. It is an act of desperation but I think it is better than going nuts imagining what the partner does - or doesn't do. And I think in most of all the extreme snooping cases it is justified.
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