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Originally Posted by oh-eve
I think nobody would want to have to do this or think of it or do it lightly. It is an act of desperation but I think it is better than going nuts imagining what the partner does - or doesn't do. And I think in most of all the extreme snooping cases it is justified.
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I think my real point is is that it's sad if you feel that way in a relationship. The simple fact that you're "going nuts imagining what a partner does" doesn't bode well. I've rarely if ever felt that in any relationship I've been in, but I was never cheated on, that I know of anyways. So that probably might have something to do with my views.
In terms of extreme snooping, IDK if it works for you then fine. I don't really have a hard opinion of it because I've never felt I had to do it so I can't really honestly answer that portion.
I feel bad for the OP if she suspects he is.
I'm of the variety that thinks we have a certain six sense sometimes and the gut is
usually right, if one pays attention to the flags in life, on any subject, they are usually there and shouldn't be ignored.
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