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Old 03-10-2017, 06:22 PM
 
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Originally Posted by geminigirl7 View Post
He's her husband not her child so she really can't forbid him from doing anything. If a grown man wants to do something he's going to do it, he has to want to stop on his own. I'm not pro-porn but this kind of advice is just silly.
Umm....I have no clue what you are talking about. No one said she is going to FORCE him to do anything and that is a bit absurd eh?

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Anyway, even if she got rid of the home computer he still would have his cell phone and most likely access to a computer at work so that's not solving anything. OP never even said he was obsessed with porn so this isn't even the issue.
She mentioned pornography. Only you have called him so into porn it is an obsession.

I know his compulsion with instagram girls has went so far as to comment on multiple womens profiles aka photos. That is a compulsion. Again, no mention of the amount of times hes looked at porn. We've all done it before. You also called him a child, which he is not.

You are planting alot of falsehoods in this thread with your imagination. No need to dramatize it. Back to the OP
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Old 03-10-2017, 10:39 PM
 
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Cheater, entertaining or hooking up with hookers. Pig. STD test for yourself. Get a fake Instagram yourself and get a lot of followers you can buy them for $70 then hit on him...see what happens. Tell him where you live in your byline. Catch him, get a lawyer....
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Old 03-10-2017, 10:40 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Cheater, entertaining or hooking up with hookers. Pig. STD test for yourself. Get a fake Instagram yourself and get a lot of followers you can buy them for $70 then hit on him...see what happens. Tell him where you live in your byline. Catch him, get a lawyer....
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Old 03-11-2017, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Lol I like Breaking band's comment.
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Old 03-11-2017, 10:32 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Lol I like Breaking band's comment.
LOL, she went all scorched earth over there. Talk about using a sledge hammer where a simple hammer would work. I said what the guy did was sleazy but if he stops and is truly sincere in his apology that a marriage shouldn't be broken up over it.

I mean, jeez, that poster was about to slip a horse head in bed with the guy......
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Old 03-12-2017, 06:29 AM
 
Location: Pa
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LOL, she went all scorched earth over there. Talk about using a sledge hammer where a simple hammer would work. I said what the guy did was sleazy but if he stops and is truly sincere in his apology that a marriage shouldn't be broken up over it.

I mean, jeez, that poster was about to slip a horse head in bed with the guy......
Well I'd be p!ssed too if I gave him London broil and He's out eating spam.
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Old 03-12-2017, 07:55 AM
 
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Hello all. Ok to begin with... I will tell you why I'm being insecure it's all begin after finding out my husband constantly checks out his co worker Facebook page and me catching him look at girls from his faculty (on FB as well). I used to be very confident about my looks too, I'm a 34D 5'7" slim figure woman and all his friends kept telling him that I'm attractive. But the girls (from work) I caught him looking was short and fat. So tell me how can I not be insecure. I recently also found out he had a fake Instagram account which he added "Real Instagram Girls" and click likes on all the big breasted girls in their bikini pictures!!!!!! I could care less if he watches porno or look at pornstar naked pictures online, BUT these are real girls with real account on Instagram. And so i start going through his other accounts and found 2 comments he made which really pisses me off to a point that I just wanted to leave him. Ok so the comments are both for a pictures saying "husband not getting enough sex from wife" - He wrote "At times calling an escort is actually cheaper....True story" and the second comment - he wrote "had sex only 12 times a year (which is not true!!!) I could have save up and get an escort so my sex life is 100 times better".
WTF!!!!! So I confronted him and he said it's just a funny website and people post funny response, also he said I wouldn't put out so he was mad and wrote something stupid online. Anyone here can tell me whether I'm overrracting so does he really means he will do this in the future?!!! I would appreciate to get an opinion from both men and women!! I asked him what he meant by "true story" he said he heard it from a guy before and that's why he wrote that...seriously...is that believable?
I was just so disgusted by his actions, I chose him as my husband is because I thought he was caring and will only love me, find me attractive but now he's showing me the other side of him!!!! Should I leave him before he cheats on me?! Help please!!!!
Well one post wonder.

Is this valid at all who knows. Maybe the OP should post a pic so we can see how hot she (he?) is.


Also in our culture, there are plenty of not so fit girls getting action with decent looking men. I see it all the time. Men are lowering their standards more and more, so I wouldn't put cheating past him based upon their looks.

With that said, he doesn't sound that bright. Sounds like you two need to talk about this, if you are a real person with a real issue.
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Old 03-12-2017, 08:39 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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He better stop trolling online if he wants to stay with you.

Which is exactly what she is doing on here. First time poster, long, weird story. Doubt she will ever be back.
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Old 03-12-2017, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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Which is exactly what she is doing on here. First time poster, long, weird story. Doubt she will ever be back.
Now why is it whenever I hint at the horrible "tr011" word I get thrown off c-d for a few days?
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Old 03-12-2017, 09:47 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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Now why is it whenever I hint at the horrible "tr011" word I get thrown off c-d for a few days?
Beats me because it says right in the TOS "No trolling allowed". So if trolling is not allowed why would C-D ban anyone for stating the obvious? Or should the TOS say "Trolling IS allowed but we will ban you for a few days if you mention someone might be a troll".


These first timers with their far fetched stories should either be ignored "don't feed the trolls" or their posts should be deleted. I had someone DM me one time saying they thought that C-D keeps the posts up even if they are obviously trolls because it generates activity on the boards. Who knows but if you don't see me for a few days you will know that I was given a suspension. :-)
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