For those of you that have a hard time dating

[Griffis]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

Oh I know. I try to be as nice as possible whenever I talked to a woman. The advice I got from the women in my life is that they never went out with a guy who just approached them out of the blue. Now I'd rather meet a woman through my friends or an activity. Get to know her and then ask her out.

Seems like a good policy. But I'm wary of "setups" too, as when friends try to intervene thinking "Oh, wouldn't David and xxx make a cute couple? We should get them together!"

But if it happens naturally at a social function or through mutual friends it can be preferable to a "cold call" on a complete stranger. I imagine, anyway.

[Bo_Lorem]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

So, you'd quit your job, move out of house and home on a gut feeling that you will "possibly" increase your chances in finding your unique type? And what if the next place doesn't yield your type? Are you going to keep on moving? That doesn't sound logical to me at ALL.

With the advent of computers and the ultimate power of the internet. One can find their "kind of people" regardless of location (meet and possible relocate- if things get serious)..... now that sounds logical, to me.. no need to quit your job, rent a uhaul, sell your home/break a lease, find another job, etc.

Great post. Some areas are a death trap. The people you like simply aren't there.