I'm scared as hell, but I think I'm gonna bring up "the talk" over the phone (marry, woman)

[rrah]

He's likely not that interested in you. Based on your other post I suspect he doesn't appreciate the way you speak with him.

[Bo_Lorem]

If I'm "dating", I don't take down my profile, and I let this be known.


If I look at this as relationship material, I communicate this and let them know I'm taking down my profile.


This happened last time, and I was still type casted as a "player". She had trust issues.

[profnot]

He is stringing you along as he is meeting other women for maximum chances at getting laid.

Tell him no more emails, no more texts.

Phone calls (not voicemail messages) and in-person dates only.

If he can't give you monogamy and 2 dates during the work week and 1 weekend date, he's not available for an advanced relationship with you.

i.e.: He's playing the field.

Choose to spend your time with a different man: one who appreciates and wants to be with you.

[PriscillaVanilla]

Be prepared to walk away and stay away. A man who is in love will take down his profile and agree to exclusivity. He does not deserve you.


And no face to face talk is necessary, you can do it over the phone next time he calls. Since it's not an exclusive relationship, there is no need for a face to face talk. That's for more serious involvements.

[dejaentendu19]

If he won't take down his profile then there really isn't much to talk about is there?

[Sassygirl18]

I don't think it's fair to ask someone to take their OLD profile down unless you have agreed to be exclusive.

From your post it doesn't sound like you agreed to be exclusive so that means you are both free to date other people. And that means he has every right to keep his OLD profile active.

Just because you have had sex doesn't make you exclusive.

[old_cold]

Originally Posted by Sassygirl18

I don't think it's fair to ask someone to take their OLD profile down unless you have agreed to be exclusive.

From your post it doesn't sound like you agreed to be exclusive so that means you are both free to date other people. And that means he has every right to keep his OLD profile active.

Just because you have had sex doesn't make you exclusive.

But she has very right to want it and ask for it or end it, as it appears that she is going to do.

[Buzhidao]

Originally Posted by Pilot1

He's not sick, he is dating other women. This guy is a PLAYER. You don't even have to call him to "break up" as in his mind there is no relationship. Did you sleep with him?

Originally Posted by Winter Sucks

I don't think the OP is a lady. He has the writing style of a guy. Am I right?

Wait... what? I have the writing style of a guy?

Just reassure you that I am female.

[Buzhidao]

Originally Posted by Sassygirl18

I don't think it's fair to ask someone to take their OLD profile down unless you have agreed to be exclusive.

From your post it doesn't sound like you agreed to be exclusive so that means you are both free to date other people. And that means he has every right to keep his OLD profile active.

Just because you have had sex doesn't make you exclusive.

Maybe you're right.... I just thought taking down profile was the first step working towards being exclusive. Maybe I was wrong.

[Buzhidao]

Originally Posted by old_cold

But she has very right to want it and ask for it or end it, as it appears that she is going to do.

Yes yes thank you!