How do you as a man show interest in a woman? (movies, lover)

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by movintime

OMG unsure how to react. LOL

Just jokin as it seems you got your way, eh?

I was just joking too, it was hyperbole, but yeah, he really does seem to not notice when girls are into him.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by JerZ

My husband is kind of on the clueless side in detecting cues. He never knows when a girl is staring at him or giggling just a little too hard at the slightest hint of a joke. He figures she's just being nice.

I pretty much had to send a written invitation.

Date: Now!
Time: Now!
Where: In JerZ's pants!
RSVP: In JerZ's pants!

I got his hints right away, though.

That's the way to do it! Hahaha!

[Mightyqueen801]

Originally Posted by Dport7674

This is what I mean about being a bit direct.

A grown man dropped 17 hints and got nowhere.
It wasn't until he was direct and a bit blunt that he got what he wanted.

Well, in fairness, a more astute woman might have picked up on the hints. I am clueless when it comes to normal relationships, and I don't think I am representative of women who are used to such hints.

But yes, it took him saying it straight out for me to get it. Glad he did, too.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by Mightyqueen801

Well, in fairness, a more astute woman might have picked up on the hints. I am clueless when it comes to normal relationships, and I don't think I am representative of women who are used to such hints.

But yes, it took him saying it straight out for me to get it. Glad he did, too.

Maybe if more men were direct and said,"Hey I like you,want to date you,want a relationship with you". Instead of playing dumb mind games.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Maybe if more men were direct and said,"Hey I like you,want to date you,want a relationship with you". Instead of playing dumb mind games.

That would be awkward to say to a woman you don't know.

Me personally, her looking good (physically) just doesn't do it for me anymore. How a woman treats people is gonna decide if I want to ask her out...

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

That would be awkward to say to a woman you don't know.

Me personally, her looking good (physically) just doesn't do it for me anymore. How a woman treats people is gonna decide if I want to ask her out...

I meant after a couple dates or a year or two.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by Raena77

I meant after a couple dates or a year or two.

A year or two? Way too long...

A couple of dates is fine.

[scribbles76]

I've forgotten, on purpose.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

A year or two? Way too long...

A couple of dates is fine.

To ask for a relationship?

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by Raena77

To ask for a relationship?

Oh a relationship? I agree with you there.

A serious relationship is way more serious than dating tbh.