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Old 02-18-2018, 08:43 AM
 
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Tell her you like her.
I think the Valentine's Day gift and flirty text was an obvious sign.

The fact she didn't flirt back when I sent my flirty text when she responded to it shows she's not interested no?
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Old 02-18-2018, 08:50 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Ehh even then she showed a lot of signs of pulling away and not being interested...from waking up the next morning and keeping her distance physically from me..showing me her dating profile, always mentioning how great a friends we are etc ..Plus our situation is not your average one seeing as how she was married to a friend so she had to know that's why I wasn't overly aggressive from the beginning.

I knew she probably wasn't into me I just had to get it off my chest..
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I think the Valentine's Day gift and flirty text was an obvious sign.

The fact she didn't flirt back when I sent my flirty text when she responded to it shows she's not interested no?
Awww I missed your other post.
You are right that's sure sign of not interested.
Move on friend,you will get a great one next!
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Old 02-18-2018, 08:57 AM
 
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Awww I missed your other post.
You are right that's sure sign of not interested.
Move on friend,you will get a great one next!
Hopefully..it's just weird because she seemed extremely excited and grateful when she got the gift and texted me back.
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Old 02-18-2018, 09:03 AM
 
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I think the Valentine's Day gift and flirty text was an obvious sign.

The fact she didn't flirt back when I sent my flirty text when she responded to it shows she's not interested no?
She didn't want signs and hints. She wanted you to tell her you liked her.
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Old 02-18-2018, 09:03 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Hopefully..it's just weird because she seemed extremely excited and grateful when she got the gift and texted me back.
I have no idea.Women and men are so weird.

My guy wants me to go on a cruise next year but hasn't talked to me since last Tuesday. Weds I sent him a silly Valentine pic and no response.

Therefore I believe he found another.
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Old 02-18-2018, 09:06 AM
 
Location: Youngstown, Oh.
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1.You would be surprised at how many guys (people don't really listen to each other,too much me me)
2. People do it,we touch,it's natural for humans.I love touching a guys back.
3.You can't see winking?
I started a thread about that. //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...on-dating.html

I might catch a wink, if we were already really close to each other.
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Old 02-18-2018, 09:07 AM
 
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She didn't want signs and hints. She wanted you to tell her you liked her.
It's still a dance though..if I flirt back she should at least acknowledge it if she's into me.

I understand women want the man to be the agressor but it doesn't mean they don't show signs of interest even subtle ones to let the man know she enjoys and is welcoming the flirting and approach.

The fact she ignored the flirting completely tells me she's not interested.
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Old 02-18-2018, 09:12 AM
 
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I started a thread about that. //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...on-dating.html

I might catch a wink, if we were already really close to each other.
Oh yeah.

Hey JR_C

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Old 02-18-2018, 09:18 AM
 
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It's still a dance though..if I flirt back she should at least acknowledge it if she's into me.

I understand women want the man to be the agressor but it doesn't mean they don't show signs of interest even subtle ones to let the man know she enjoys and is welcoming the flirting and approach.

The fact she ignored the flirting completely tells me she's not interested.
Yes, by now I think she has lost interest. Try again...there are so many women out there. Take this experience as a learning opportunity. It will click at some point, you'll find someone. No more gifts and stiff for this girl, though. Too much time has gone by. At this point you're only confusing her.
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Old 02-18-2018, 01:22 PM
 
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Well in what ways do you?
I just say yes...

Or I don't recoil when she touches me. I just let her touch me anywhere, anyhow.


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