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I think one way for a woman who is interested in a man and to see if he is interested back without seeming too eager or desperate is to make themselves seem available to ask out.
Example Her: Any plans for the weekend?
Example Him: Watch the game/go for hike/blah blah you?
Example Her: Maybe watch the game too "lie", have some drinks.
Example Him: Where at?
Example Her: There's this restaurant/bar I go to. You should try it out.
CUE FOR HIM
Example Him: Yeah? you wanna go sometime? Let me get your number.
Some variation that sets it up for him to feel comfortable to ask you out. If he doesn't ask after a few set ups, he aint interested and neither were you.
I've had men show their interest in different ways:
Some just stare.
Some are very engaging and inquisitive.
Try to give me things.
Ask me out.
Everything from cat calling to actually approaching me with some decency. But I notice that when they really like me or when they just want to "mess around" I catch them staring in a way that it looks like they are "concentrating" on something, or just looking right through me. I don't know I can't really explain it. It's an interesting phenomenon.
It could also mean that you've observed some other trait, say a behavior (interacting well with other people, rescuing a kitten, helping an old lady across the street, beating up a bunch of bad guys, busting a sick move on the dance floor, shredding a mean riff on the guitar, telling your favorite team to "never bunt, hit dingers", whatever) that you find interesting.
Especially to the "I'm too ugly crowd", it's not just about your looks.
I fall within this group. Most women I meet are physically "meh" to me. It's something "inside" of them that makes me attractive to them. But I wouldn't know that until I know them.
8 hour response time with nothing flirty back = Not interested,uncomfortable,let the conversation die down, changed/ended subject
Flirty text with 0 response? = Not interested, uncomfortable, doesn't know what to say, doesn't care to say anything
I agree but I figured this is how it would go..We get along amazingly but I'm not attractive enough for her more then likely.. oh well
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