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Old 09-13-2018, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Crook County, Hellinois
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Short answer: They don't have to put in effort.

Long answer: Women get 100+ messages a day regardless of how much effort they put into their profile. A woman can spend hours crafting her profile, with sexy but non-slutty photos, thoughtful answers that appeal to both Chad Thunderpenis and Timothy Provider, intriguing quotes with a "wow" factor, and statements that inspire men to reply. Or she can put up a bunch of photos copied from instant gram [sic], and fill her profile with "just ask". Either way, the result will be the same. So why put effort into a profile, when half-azzing it will do.

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Old 09-13-2018, 05:58 PM
 
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I wonder if there is a correlation between guys who put "just ask" in their profiles and guys who send unsolicited dick pics?


Maybe they mean "just ask for dick pics"?
No! They'd never get to send any then.
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Old 09-13-2018, 07:47 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Short answer: They don't have to put in effort.

Long answer: Women get 100+ messages a day regardless of how much effort they put into their profile. A woman can spend hours crafting her profile, with sexy but non-slutty photos, thoughtful answers that appeal to both Chad Thunderpenis and Timothy Provider, intriguing quotes with a "wow" factor, and statements that inspire men to reply. Or she can put up a bunch of photos copied from instant gram [sic], and fill her profile with "just ask". Either way, the result will be the same. So why put effort into a profile, when half-azzing it will do.
No. They don't. Just stop. It's getting old.
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Old 09-13-2018, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Texas
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No. They don't. Just stop. It's getting old.
I guarantee that good looking women new to a dating website in a metro area easily receive 100+ messages a day. They may not be well thought out by the majority of the guys sending them, but they are receiving that volume nonetheless.
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Old 09-13-2018, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Nevada
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I guarantee that good looking women new to a dating website in a metro area easily receive 100+ messages a day. They may not be well thought out by the majority of the guys sending them, but they are receiving that volume nonetheless.
LMAO.... Now all the qualifiers come out "good looking" "new" "metro area"... and messages not "well thought out"....

So the average woman, who's been around the site for a while, who might be older, who lives in a smaller town... In other words, MOST women, do NOT get hundreds of messages daily.
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Old 09-13-2018, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Texas
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LMAO.... Now all the qualifiers come out "good looking" "new" "metro area"... and messages not "well thought out"....

So the average woman, who's been around the site for a while, who might be older, who lives in a smaller town... In other words, MOST women, do NOT get hundreds of messages daily.
Touché, but then again, I never made the claim “all women” either.
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Old 09-13-2018, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Nevada
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Touché, but then again, I never made the claim “all women” either.
You didn't say "some" women get 100 messages a day. You said "women" get 100 messages a day. All or most women is pretty much implied if you don't qualify it (as you eventually did).
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Old 09-13-2018, 08:45 PM
 
Location: Texas
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You didn't say "some" women get 100 messages a day. You said "women" get 100 messages a day. All or most women is pretty much implied if you don't qualify it (as you eventually did).
The women I described had “qualifiers”, as you put it. You must have me confused with another member.
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Old 09-13-2018, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Crook County, Hellinois
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No. They don't. Just stop. It's getting old.

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Old 09-13-2018, 09:44 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Long answer: Women get 100+ messages a day regardless of how much effort they put into their profile. A woman can spend hours crafting her profile, with sexy but non-slutty photos, thoughtful answers that appeal to both Chad Thunderpenis and Timothy Provider, intriguing quotes with a "wow" factor, and statements that inspire men to reply. Or she can put up a bunch of photos copied from instant gram [sic], and fill her profile with "just ask". Either way, the result will be the same. So why put effort into a profile, when half-azzing it will do.
And women like that have self-selected out of my select few who are discerning about their men, and are not people users.

I won't reply to women who don't have interesting profiles. Just not, I'm sorry!

Women who want a discerning man write profiles. Women who are people users post a sign where to line up and interview hundreds of candidates for the privilege of dating them.
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