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Old 09-08-2019, 08:51 PM
 
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Not sure that’s allowed??

I think you will get genuine insight if one posts picture
If not people will just be speculating

Perhaps it's the vibe you are projecting....or you are expecting to meet guys above your league.? .will only be speculation
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Old 09-08-2019, 08:55 PM
 
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You can't post pix of others without their permission. You can post your pic, of course.
I’ve uploaded a face photo and a body photo. Unfortunately their a bit small due to the file size limits, but I can assure you they’re way more clear on the app, well the body pic isn’t on the app, it’s a pic from last week.
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Old 09-08-2019, 09:02 PM
 
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I’ve uploaded a face photo and a body photo. Unfortunately their a bit small due to the file size limits, but I can assure you they’re way more clear on the app, well the body pic isn’t on the app, it’s a pic from last week.

I think you look good so I'd think it's the vibes you are projecting
Do you think you come off as standoffish or overly serious?
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Old 09-08-2019, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Is it accurate to say that you aren't really sad that you aren't getting to go out with these guys so much as you're sad that they aren't coming after you?
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Old 09-08-2019, 09:07 PM
 
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I think you look good so I'd think it's the vibes you are projecting
Do you think you come off as standoffish or overly serious?
Definitely not overly serious, I feel like the second to last date I had (which I posted about) all we did was laugh! On one of the 4 dates I might’ve been standoffish but I think it was clear we were both not keen on each other, so in that case I really didn’t expect to hear from the guy
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Old 09-08-2019, 09:11 PM
 
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Is it accurate to say that you aren't really sad that you aren't getting to go out with these guys so much as you're sad that they aren't coming after you?
Out of the four I would’ve really only been excited about going out again with one of them (the one I posted about). So yea part of it is what you’re saying I guess.
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Old 09-08-2019, 09:17 PM
 
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Is it accurate to say that you aren't really sad that you aren't getting to go out with these guys so much as you're sad that they aren't coming after you?
Them reaching out for 2nd/ subsequent meets reaffirms whether they found her attractive, whether she found them attractive is another thing, more for the ego if they will reach out & pursue her
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Old 09-08-2019, 09:21 PM
 
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Them reaching out for 2nd/ subsequent meets reaffirms whether they found her attractive, whether she found them attractive is another thing, more for the ego if they will reach out & pursue her
Yes, exactly. I wish I could be above this, but I’m not...can’t help it, the ego gets bruised.

And my last date did tell me I was very pretty, and I thought we had a nice time, never heard from him. So then I start question if I said or did something to put him off
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Old 09-08-2019, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Them reaching out for 2nd/ subsequent meets reaffirms whether they found her attractive, whether she found them attractive is another thing, more for the ego if they will reach out & pursue her
Yes, I know. That's the point.

She's feeling rejected.

She's posted before that it makes her feel bad about herself when guys don't pursue her (regardless of whether or not she's into them.) She misses the ego boost.

I think these guys are picking up on it.
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Old 09-08-2019, 09:29 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Yes, I know. That's the point.

She's feeling rejected.

She's posted before that it makes her feel bad about herself when guys don't pursue her (regardless of whether or not she's into them.) She misses the ego boost.

I think these guys are picking up on it.
I agree.
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