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posters like ruth for truth are saying you need to leave town and change your fone number (ruth: youre one of the most intelligent posters here but on this one you are kinda' off center).
from your o.p.:
nothing wrong with asking to keep in touch long distance so y'all could possibly link up if you return or he takes a vacation to your city (if this guy was idris elba, we would not be hyperbolizing that she needs to get a restraining order and go into witpro):
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"Most intelligent" Ruth advised OP to change her phone# and "hide behind an "Iron Curtain" (on page 4)as if he belonged to a kind of Russsian spy agency......
Welcome to the wonderful world of online dating. He wanted a one night stand and he wasn't going to get it with you so he took off, probably in search of another prospect. Rubbing your legs and stuff while on a first meet and greet is totally unacceptable behavior for any man. That was very disrespectful and you shouldn't waste any more of your valuable time on him. Block him and move on.
It's more acceptable when the woman starts cuddling you on a park bench at night, then agrees to go continue things in your parked car, and then doesn't tell you to stop.
Welcome to the wonderful world of online dating. He wanted a one night stand and he wasn't going to get it with you so he took off, probably in search of another prospect. Rubbing your legs and stuff while on a first meet and greet is totally unacceptable behavior for any man. That was very disrespectful and you shouldn't waste any more of your valuable time on him. Block him and move on.
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I disagree. This is 2022, not the prudish Victorian age. You all behave as if he raped her....
Sounds almost like he offered up a pity date. He apparently knew you pretty well. Some creepy guys will do that. Maybe you should consider a new hairdo, different make-up, different clothes, weight loss if you're chubby, etc. But, frankly, I'd take it as checking you out for potential beddie bye stuff or he just had nothing better to do.
Just a suggestion. Life might go easier for you if you get it through your head that a woman never loses her right to say "don't touch me."
It doesn't matter what the location, or what the circumstances, or what happened before. If you refuse to acknowledge that a woman can't say "don't touch me" then you just might end up in jail at some point in your life.
After heavy provocation? No wonder so many rape accusations are denied in court.
By the way, I am Female.
Just a suggestion. Life might go easier for you if you get it through your head that a woman never loses her right to say "don't touch me."
It doesn't matter what the location, or what the circumstances, or what happened before. If you refuse to acknowledge that a woman can't say "don't touch me" then you just might end up in jail at some point in your life.
And....I do not like the patronizing tone in your post. I bet you are a "very mature" person. Male or femsle, I guess female.
Sounds almost like he offered up a pity date. He apparently knew you pretty well. Some creepy guys will do that. Maybe you should consider a new hairdo, different make-up, different clothes, weight loss if you're chubby, etc. But, frankly, I'd take it as checking you out for potential beddie bye stuff or he just had nothing better to do.
Your clueless! This wasn’t a pity date on his end at all. I’m the one who finally agreed to hangout okay? No I don’t need to change anything. I have beautiful skin, I weigh 130, my make up is great, I also have great fashion sense , not that any of this matters ! Im not just some unattractive woman , because that’s definitely not the case. That’s why he asked me if I got a lot of compliments thanks for the advice though, I already got it boo !
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thanks for the advice though, I already got it boo !
