Very strange first date, what happened? (dates, men, love, sex)
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OP, change your phone number when you move, just to be on the safe side. I know it's a hassle to notify everyone of the new number, but OTOH, it's a technologically simple way to create distance from creeps. Except....does he know what town you're moving to? Don't give this guy any more information about yourself or your plans. You need to erect an Iron Curtain.
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Well, he hasn’t reached out so I think he got the clue. When he dropped me off to my car and drove off he was waving to me giving me a stare ….
During the date , he also stated to me that I looked comfortable and that I could fall asleep in front of him? Which how are you going to tell me when I’m comfortable???
I’ll have to admit I did bring up another guy during are date, I told him a guy in my neighborhood invited me to a party… it wasn’t on like a jealous thing. It happened before the date and it just came up.
That being said, straight to persistent cuddling / thigh rubbing on the first date, despite you not responding or even looking at him? I mean, is this... the usual drill? Guess I'm even more out of the loop than I thought about how forward I'm supposed to get with my dates.
Good Lord, no. I just re-read the initial post. Everything about that guy and that date was wrong, wrong, wrong. As I said earlier: psycho level wrong.
My goodness, I would hate to be a woman on a first date. This is so.......oh, I don't know.....gross?
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As other posters said their 2-year conversations must have been very flirtitious and forward for him to behave so daring on the first meeting. She admitted that she finally agreed to a meeting, bc after such a long time "she liked him."
And why did she agree to go to a park for the first meeting, after she drove there, then changed into his car and he drove them to the park?
So she gave him very confusing and mixed signals and I would not call him a sexual "weirdo."
He was also walking in front of me a lot ? Not walking with me it was weird
In your shoes I would move on. You say this guy chased you for two years, and you spoke with him for five months before deciding to meet him. You put this guy off all that time because you were not intersested in him. You finally "give him a chance" like you are doing him a favor and now you are ruminating on him. Suddenly now that he doesn't want you, he is worth your time and energy trying to figure out?
In the future, if you are not interested in someone, tell him you are not interested. Don't string him along for all of that time. To be honest, even though his behavior was a bit "off," yours needs some work too. Truly, it sounds like you kept him in the background for your own ego or to keep him there in case you got bored or lonely.
As other posters said their 2-year conversations must have been very flirtitious and forward for him to behave so daring on the first meeting. She admitted that she finally agreed to a meeting, bc after such a long time "she liked him."
And why did she agree to go to a park for the first meeting, after she drove there, then changed into his car and he drove them to the park?
So she gave him very confusing and mixed signals and I would not call him a sexual "weirdo."
Nope he was getting ignored for 2years he would come back like every month and try again. I just now started engaging with him. I never led him on. There were plenty of times were we had conversations as friends, just recently. We would talk about politics, life and etc. I can admit towards the end we did get flirtatious in our conversations. There’s nothing wrong with that we were both single and young.
Did you sense or outright see any red flags during those two years?
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