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Old 01-15-2022, 06:55 PM
 
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So he chased me for 2years when I finally give him the time of the day, and talk to him for 5months. While he begs me to go on a date, was just a plan for him , to get in my pants ?
As if you didn't know that.

What were all the prior conversations? Like mostly basketball, plumbing, favorite tv shows? OR was there some possible flirting going on in those convos?

I think you played a large role in your own weird date. You really going to tell us you had no clue this dude had a major crush on you??

 
Old 01-15-2022, 08:14 PM
 
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As if you didn't know that.

What were all the prior conversations? Like mostly basketball, plumbing, favorite tv shows? OR was there some possible flirting going on in those convos?

I think you played a large role in your own weird date. You really going to tell us you had no clue this dude had a major crush on you??
I Obviously knew he liked me … I was responding to someone who stated that he was only trying to sleep me.
 
Old 01-15-2022, 08:21 PM
 
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He also was like, the first date doesn’t need to be long because it’s just are first meet. I was like that’s fine I mean if you were so uninterested or wanted to leave , why are you touching me and staring into my soul…
Trust us, you don't want to know. This is a guy who behaves like he's not safe to be around. You should take that seriously.

Next time, don't ignore red flags. Don't go out with people you have doubts about.

BTW, just for giggles, do an internet search on him. Let us know if anything unusual comes. up.
 
Old 01-15-2022, 08:37 PM
 
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Trust us, you don't want to know. This is a guy who behaves like he's not safe to be around. You should take that seriously.

Next time, don't ignore red flags. Don't go out with people you have doubts about.

BTW, just for giggles, do an internet search on him. Let us know if anything unusual comes. up.
He also said … “just cause your moving, that doesn’t mean we have to just cut Communication”
 
Old 01-15-2022, 08:43 PM
 
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Trust us, you don't want to know. This is a guy who behaves like he's not safe to be around. You should take that seriously.

Next time, don't ignore red flags. Don't go out with people you have doubts about.

BTW, just for giggles, do an internet search on him. Let us know if anything unusual comes. up.
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And how should she do that? Do you really think he gave her his private data? And phone #s are not reliable.
 
Old 01-15-2022, 09:04 PM
 
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For some reason, I have a feeling this is not the last we'll be hearing about this guy (or the last thread created about this same topic)...
 
Old 01-15-2022, 09:24 PM
 
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For some reason, I have a feeling this is not the last we'll be hearing about this guy (or the last thread created about this same topic)...
I don’t think so, he never tried to reach out
 
Old 01-15-2022, 10:47 PM
 
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So he chased me for 2years when I finally give him the time of the day, and talk to him for 5months. While he begs me to go on a date, was just a plan for him , to get in my pants ?
Let me put it this way: do you really think all he dreamed about for the last two years was you? He's what's called a player, and pursues any number of women at any one time. He enjoys an occasional long game -- it's part of the variety and spice and excitement of the gambling life. There's giving the slot machines a spin, and then there are the poker tournaments.

He's tried those lines on a long string of females. Sometimes they worked -- sometimes on the quickie slot machine, and sometimes on the poker hand. His confidence in crossing major boundaries tells you this.
 
Old 01-15-2022, 11:53 PM
 
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And how should she do that? Do you really think he gave her his private data? And phone #s are not reliable.
What "private data"? You mean, like his first and last name? That's all she needs.
 
Old 01-15-2022, 11:54 PM
 
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He also said … “just cause your moving, that doesn’t mean we have to just cut Communication”
Yes, it does, pal. Yes, it does.

OP, change your phone number when you move, just to be on the safe side. I know it's a hassle to notify everyone of the new number, but OTOH, it's a technologically simple way to create distance from creeps. Except....does he know what town you're moving to? Don't give this guy any more information about yourself or your plans. You need to erect an Iron Curtain.


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