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So my girlfriend always seems to want to go out to clubs for really young people when she’s out with a friend. Seems super weird that a woman in her 30s wants to party with people in thier 20s?
It is weird, first timer. VERY weird.
The cut off for going out with friends and having a good time should be *29 years and 364 days*. Any older than that, and they should be in bed by 9pm in their jammies with a cup of hot tea.
Last edited by SerlingHitchcockJPeele; 01-18-2022 at 01:19 PM..
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Originally Posted by Suburban_Guy
Yes very weird. Clubs are for teens/early 20's, not 30's.
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Originally Posted by SerlingHitchcockJPeele
It is weird, first timer. VERY weird.
The cut off for going out with friends and having a good time should be *29 years and 364 days*. Any older than that, and they should be in bed by 9pm in their jammies with a cup of hot tea.
Says who exactly? The clubs of DC and Charlotte are full of people in their 30s and they don’t look out of place at all. Now unless you know how to work a club, the 40s would really be where it starts getting weird.
Says who exactly? The clubs of DC and Charlotte are full of people in their 30s and they don’t look out of place at all. Now unless you know how to work a club, the 40s would really be where it starts getting weird.
WARNING! DANGER! The woman is dangerous. Before you know it she might decide to take up archery. Or, go on a trip to Japan. Or snowboard. She might....read a book! Run away now, OP. She's obviously freaky weird and she will never change into the person you want her to be.
Why is it weird? I don't think its weird..... she is enjoying herself.... seems like a free-spirit and those people are generally very adventurous as well. Makes life less-boring. This is who she is and seemingly a part of her character/personality. Why are you trying to marginalize that? Why would you try to control the very type of behavior that makes who she is?
You should accept her for who she is or do her a favor and move on to someone else...
A close friend of mine is very similar. We had a great night at a club... when it closed, she headed to the street, threw off her shoes, took out her phone to play music, and started dancing the night away.. It was like 3am in the morning. We danced together right there in front on the empty sidewalk. Couple walked by and clapped.... Cop walked by and said "Fun night!" and gave us a thumbs up.
we are in our late 40s.. Life is never boring around her....
Oh yes... there are people who think she is weird. So the OP's not alone in that. But she doesn't care. All her friends that know her love her for who she is... and accepts it.
Playing devil's advocate here for a moment........I wonder if OP was a woman saying that her boyfriend who was in his 30s was going out to nightclubs on weekends, I bet many of these responses would be FAR different.
Playing devil's advocate here for a moment........I wonder if OP was a woman saying that her boyfriend who was in his 30s was going out to nightclubs on weekends, I bet many of these responses would be FAR different.
Apparently the OP revised his post from a woman he's known a couple of weeks, to girlfriend. A few weeks is barely an acquaintance, to be criticizing a single woman for how she's living her life.
Says who exactly? The clubs of DC and Charlotte are full of people in their 30s and they don’t look out of place at all. Now unless you know how to work a club, the 40s would really be where it starts getting weird.
I knew you'd be chiming in! I was like, Diss is going to come and set him straight.
OP, is this your first girlfriend? You may be doing it wrong.
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Life is never boring around her....
