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Old 01-18-2022, 11:45 AM
 
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So my girlfriend always seems to want to go out to clubs for really young people when she’s out with a friend. Seems super weird that a woman in her 30s wants to party with people in thier 20s?
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Old 01-18-2022, 11:50 AM
 
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Seems like they enjoy each other's company. Are you trying to find a way to stop her from going?
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Old 01-18-2022, 11:54 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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Yes, OK, then. Your recent girlfriend is has been invited to use a friend's beach house for vacation. And your issue is what?


You've been dating for a month and already you think you should control where she goes, who she sees, and where she takes her vacation?
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Old 01-18-2022, 11:55 AM
 
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OP did you completely rewrite your original post or am I having a stroke?
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Old 01-18-2022, 12:08 PM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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OP did you completely rewrite your original post or am I having a stroke?
Are strokes contagious, because...........
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Old 01-18-2022, 12:19 PM
 
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Yes very weird. Clubs are for teens/early 20's, not 30's.
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Old 01-18-2022, 12:33 PM
 
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I am 55 and will go dancing with friends at a club. So will my friends in their 40s and 50s. There will be more young people there, of course, but we are not there for them. We are there to enjoy the music and dance.
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Old 01-18-2022, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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A 31-year-old isn't that far out of their 20s that being in a club would be odd or noticeable.
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Old 01-18-2022, 12:40 PM
 
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The OP's first post (before being scrapped and rewritten) said they had only been together for a few weeks and he thought it was weird that she would want to go on vacation with a female coworker and her family. Now it's weird that she likes to go out dancing.

So, OP, what else is "weird" about your girlfriend that you would like to get under control?
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Old 01-18-2022, 12:57 PM
 
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The OP's first post (before being scrapped and rewritten) said they had only been together for a few weeks and he thought it was weird that she would want to go on vacation with a female coworker and her family. Now it's weird that she likes to go out dancing.

So, OP, what else is "weird" about your girlfriend that you would like to get under control?

I have a feeling she will not be his girlfriend for very long if he keeps questioning what she likes to do because he thinks it is "weird."
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