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Just lock her in her room and take her out whenever you wanna see her. Its the only way to deal with insecurities and be 100% sure of her activities.
People go out to have a good time. If she is going to cheat, it will happen no matter what. The problem isn't her going out it is the relationship from both insecurities, unhappiness in the relationship, or both.
Age has nothing to do with it.... People don't suddenly become couch potato servants when they turn 40.
I also had a huge typo! she’s 41 not 31! She is my girlfriend and we are in a monogamous relationship.
Seems like something you get over by the time your in your 40s
Yeah, sure, OP.
It also seems like seeking advice over something rudimentary and passive-aggressively judging a whole demographic and those among them who make different choices or like different things than you are things you get over by the time you are in your 30s, er, 40s, too.
I suspect she will tire of your judgements quickly.
Saying she shouldn't be going to nightclubs because she is *gasp - 31, is pretty much like saying she shouldn't have any friends that are, for example; 25, 26, 27, 28....
Well I understand this from a guy's perspective. Guys don't go to those places to dance or have fun with their guy friends they go there to hook up. I would say this is probably a question of trust more than anything. Ladies going out with their lady friends shouldn't have boyfriends tagging along just like guys night men and women both need that. Some more some less than others.
Well she’s not much on dancing so its not that and if she was that would make a little more sense. The friends she goes to these clubs and bars with are all single and end up just hooking up and taking guys home which are typically way younger then the friend. It’s al;so usually on her and a single friend, not a group. So its not really the vibe of a group of f girlfriends going out to just hang out, dance and have fun together.
I also had a huge typo! she’s 41 not 31! She is my girlfriend and we are in a monogamous relationship.
Seems like something you get over by the time your in your 40s
So, if you really don't like this about her, then I guess she is not for you, and you are not for her.
Well she’s not much on dancing so its not that and if she was that would make a little more sense. The friends she goes to these clubs and bars with are all single and end up just hooking up and taking guys home which are typically way younger then the friend. It’s al;so usually on her and a single friend, not a group. So its not really the vibe of a group of f girlfriends going out to just hang out, dance and have fun together.
I also had a huge typo! she’s 41 not 31! She is my girlfriend and we are in a monogamous relationship.
Seems like something you get over by the time your in your 40s
I don't find the bolded believable. How do you know what her friends do at bars and clubs?
I don't find the bolded believable. How do you know what her friends do at bars and clubs?
He's probably hooked up with them before.
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