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Originally Posted by LAFan
Maybe I can hang with a group of friends or cousins to meet some girls. Could that be a better way?
I'm beginning to suspect that LAFan may be a beta test for some new sentient program technology that will be used in airline automated service hotlines, or maybe debt collections.
Maybe I can hang with a group of friends or cousins to meet some girls. Could that be a better way?
EXACTLY. The more people you know, the more people you'll meet. This will increase your chances dramatically of finding someone who is interested in you and interesting to you
Just because you want a LTR does not mean that your dating pool is limited. Especially because that is what most women are seeking. However, the next girl you date does not need to your future wife. In fact, although the girl may fantasize that, she probably does not expect it. Sometimes you get lucky, find a great catch, and live happily ever after. 99.999996% of the time it doesn't work that way. We all have our hearts broken, we all get over it, and we all move on. get to know a girl, decide if you want to know her even more, then you will slowly move into a ltr- you can't just make up your mind that you are going to have a long term relationship and then find someone willing to have one- you have to decide the kind of girl that you want, then if she is interesting to you, you will pursue her more and end up in a long term relationship
Maybe I should hang with a group of girls until I find one who is good for me.
If I asked a girl these questions, I figure she'd run off. I have no confidence or experience of meeting a girl and ask her these questions. So here it goes...
1) How can a man tell if a woman is not a liar and looks trustworthy?
You can't tell this by looking at a woman. You're going to have to spend some quality time with her.
2) How can a man tell if white women finds black men attractive?
These are pretty modern times so if I were you I'd just take a shot at her if she was being flirty with you regardless of what race, nationality, or planet she was from. Just go for it. You may be surprised at the outcome.
If she says "get away you n****!" well then you'll know that she was a racist ho that doesn't deserve your's or anyone else's time.
But if you are stereotypically black in a certain area I'm sure there are LOADS of interested women out there.
3) How can a man tell if a woman never wants kids?
Unless you picked her up at the child-free bar I don't know how you would ever know this unless you just talk to her and get to know her. I agree with you that this reduces your pool significantly. Most women want kids. They also want the big fancy wedding and a home in the suburbs with a white picket fence. <Most women, ladies, most women, not all women>. Your best shot at landing a sure thing in this catagory is to do some online searching in the child-free singles forums...as has already been suggested.
Maybe I can hang with a group of friends or cousins to meet some girls
Good grief kid.....what HAVE you been doing?
Sitting alone at a bus stop??
I actually suspect he has either been homeschooled, gone to a small school he graduated from a year ago and/or is working in a primarily male-oriented field where he doesn't meet many women (like a carpenters helper for instance)? Am I close LAfan?
EXACTLY. The more people you know, the more people you'll meet. This will increase your chances dramatically of finding someone who is interested in you and interesting to you
Or if I had a career, I could hang with my co-worker, go to clubs or anywhere to find a good woman.
I actually suspect he has either been homeschooled, gone to a small school he graduated from a year ago and/or is working in a primarily male-oriented field where he doesn't meet many women (like a carpenters helper for instance)? Am I close LAfan?
I attended public school, but I stayed to myself. Away from people and from girls. Most of my so-called "friends" were gangbangers or jockers and most girls were pretty stuck up or were teen moms.
When school was out, I stayed home away from civilization. I don't trust people too well. After I gradated high school, I abandoned my so-called high school "friends".
I attended public school, but I stayed to myself. Away from people and from girls. Most of my so-called "friends" were gangbangers or jockers and most girls were pretty stuck up or were teen moms.
When school as out, I stayed home away from civilization. I don't trust people too well.
After I gradated high school, I abandoned my so-called high school "friends".
So what do you "do" now? Are you going to college? That's a GREAT place to meet girls!
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