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Old 06-24-2008, 06:48 AM
 
Location: Kansas
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Personally for me it was a great day when my kids were born. However I do see the POV of the OP. It was gross. They generally say no sex for 6 weeks following the birth. I didn't argue.
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Old 06-24-2008, 07:13 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I never meant to state I suffered a permanent affliction. I tried to present my experience in a humorous way, my friend asked the DR to put an extra stitch in it when his first child was born...lol... hey life is funny and like I said, I wouldn't change a thing
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Old 06-24-2008, 07:36 AM
 
Location: NM
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Who in their right mind would WANT to watch all of those things that happen to the vagina during delivery?? <As in your own>

I have had 2 wonderful children, and I laughed at the nurse when asked if I wanted a mirror.

My husband didn't see anything during the 1st child, however the 2nd the Doctor looked at my husband as the head was crowning and said, "Hey! Come here look at THIS!"
As a good military man he obeyed and doesn't go into any detail about what he said down there lol!


As a woman I didn't want my husband looking at my naughty bits when they looked beaten up and scary... Somethings should be just between you and the medical people!
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Old 06-24-2008, 09:27 AM
 
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My boyfriend didn't lose interest in sex, but he won't give me oral anymore we both used to love it, but I haven't gotten in in 6 months
because of a delivery? That can work both ways!
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Old 06-24-2008, 09:40 AM
 
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Seeing it, smelling it, Boo hoo! Try hours of contractions that end in having to push the darn thing out thru a canal thats not exactly a good fit.

All that apparently didnt have a negative affect on my dh because he was ready to get back at it much sooner than I was after delivery.
I feel the same way on all counts...
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Old 06-24-2008, 01:47 PM
 
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because of a delivery? That can work both ways!
Yes because of watching me deliver... but I don't understand the second part.
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Old 06-24-2008, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Vestavia Hills
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My STBX refused to leave my head...not that I wanted him "down there." I was afraid of pooing on the table (too much info? Yeah, I thought so...), so it wasn't a problem that he stood at the head of the bed and helped me push.

Now, my mom? She just about knocked the dr. over trying to get a good look. That little thing they screw into the baby's head to monitor him/her? She took it home with her. Apparently my ob took it out of my son's head, my mother stuck out her palm, and into her purse it went. Sick, sick woman.
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Old 06-24-2008, 02:53 PM
 
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Hmmmm.....

A guy who loses interest in sex (do they still make guys who lose interest in sex---EVER????) after wife/partner has baby. Wow.

What happens when same guy gets peed on, vomited on, pooped on, cleans up the most god-awful smelling diapers ever. Does he not want to hold his child?
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Old 06-24-2008, 02:56 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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do they still make guys who lose interest in sex
You can't lose something you never had in the first place. I'm quite baffled by the number of opinions to that effect I've come across on these forums...
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Old 06-24-2008, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Irvington, NJ
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My STBX refused to leave my head...not that I wanted him "down there." I was afraid of pooing on the table (too much info? Yeah, I thought so...), so it wasn't a problem that he stood at the head of the bed and helped me push.

Now, my mom? She just about knocked the dr. over trying to get a good look. That little thing they screw into the baby's head to monitor him/her? She took it home with her. Apparently my ob took it out of my son's head, my mother stuck out her palm, and into her purse it went. Sick, sick woman.
Ha, ha, ha...your mom is too much!
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