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Old 07-24-2008, 08:26 AM
 
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It's not a dealbreaker per se, but I would prefer that there were no doggy bags on a first date.

My first dates (and usually the second and third) are usually dinner plus some other activity (movie, a walk, something). It seems such a nuisance (and not romantic in the least) to have a styrofoam box full of food during the post-dinner activity. And you wouldn't want to stink up the date's car by leaving it in there (again, not the most romantic way to end the evening with a goodnight kiss in a garlicy car), or worry about it not being refrigerated.

That said, I once had a date get a doggy bag pretty early on in our dating (I cant remember but I don't think it was a first date). We were at a downtown restaurant, and as we exited the restaurant and started walking, he offered his doggy bag to a homeless person that we passed by, who was grateful for the food. That definitely made an impression
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Old 07-24-2008, 09:05 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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We were at a downtown restaurant, and as we exited the restaurant and started walking, he offered his doggy bag to a homeless person that we passed by, who was grateful for the food. That definitely made an impression
Now, this IS impressive! First, the guy's gesture (that's what he most likely intended to do anyway); second, the homeless person being appreciative as they usually don't care for food being given to them.
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Old 07-24-2008, 09:12 AM
 
Location: Kansas
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Now, this IS impressive! First, the guy's gesture (that's what he most likely intended to do anyway); second, the homeless person being appreciative as they usually don't care for food being given to them.
Yeah they usually want money for booze or drugs. But when I was in D.C. a few years back there were homeless beggers hanging around outside of a McDonalds. I purposely didn't eat my fries and gave them to a man when I was leaving and he seemed extrordinarily grateful. He started gobbling them before they left my hand.
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Old 07-24-2008, 09:15 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Yeah, I like something salty when I'm drinking too.
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Old 07-24-2008, 09:16 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Yeah they usually want money for booze or drugs. But when I was in D.C. a few years back there were homeless beggers hanging around outside of a McDonalds. I purposely didn't eat my fries and gave them to a man when I was leaving and he seemed extrordinarily grateful. He started gobbling them before they left my hand.
That's sad. I guess some truly ARE hungry. Sometimes (and right now) I feel guilty being judgemental about the booze, though. I want my drinks, too... why wouldn't they?
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Old 07-24-2008, 09:26 AM
 
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That's sad. I guess some truly ARE hungry. Sometimes (and right now) I feel guilty being judgemental about the booze, though. I want my drinks, too... why wouldn't they?
...and who needs a drink more than the homeless? LOL
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Old 07-24-2008, 09:52 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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...and who needs a drink more than the homeless? LOL
Exactly! Who am I to preach and tell him how to use the few bucks...
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Old 07-25-2008, 11:00 AM
 
Location: TX
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Speaking of beggars, it cracks me up when they have an honest sign that reads something like, "I'm not going to lie. I need money to buy booze."
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Old 07-25-2008, 12:00 PM
 
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Speaking of beggars, it cracks me up when they have an honest sign that reads something like, "I'm not going to lie. I need money to buy booze."
You've really seen such signs?
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Old 07-25-2008, 12:48 PM
 
Location: TX
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You've really seen such signs?
Yes, I have, esp. when I lived back east. I haven't seen such a sign since I moved out here.
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