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View Poll Results: Do your partners looks matter THAT much?
YES - Looks are EVERYTHING!! 1 1.72%
Yes - A Bit Of Personality Helps 7 12.07%
Sorta - Important but not 'be all and end all'. 38 65.52%
No - Its whats inside that counts 12 20.69%
NO - IM BLIND! 0 0%
Voters: 58. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-21-2009, 01:53 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I think of it like this, the world of fashion, media, etc. is run by primairly homosexual men (not a knock, just a fact, I have very many good gay friends of both male and female). Gay men typically like thin, hairless guys. They expect the women to be built like adolescent boys.
I think it's this f ing nonsense is what's driving women to so sickly skinny. If I had a young daughter I would try my damnedest to make sure she didn't buy into this crap.

This subject gets me f ing hostile
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Old 01-21-2009, 01:57 PM
 
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Removing your body hair will make you smell better and smoother so chicks will want to touch you.
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Old 01-21-2009, 01:58 PM
 
Location: St. Augustine, FL. & Austin, TX.
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I think it's this f ing nonsense is what's driving women to so sickly skinny. If I had a young daughter I would try my damnedest to make sure she didn't buy into this crap.

This subject gets me f ing hostile
Sorry that you get so hostile over it, and it's really a very sad thing. The media is always pushing "be thin, thin, thin!" in your face.

When I was young I used to think I was so fat, I was a size 8 and a 135lbs! I look back now and wish I hadn't of been so hard on myself. Now, I'm not longer a child/teen, and the womanly features are here. Now I aim for staying fit and healthy, and everything in moderation
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:03 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Sorry that you get so hostile over it, and it's really a very sad thing. The media is always pushing "be thin, thin, thin!" in your face.

When I was young I used to think I was so fat, I was a size 8 and a 135lbs! I look back now and wish I hadn't of been so hard on myself. Now, I'm not longer a child/teen, and the womanly features are here. Now I aim for staying fit and healthy, and everything in moderation
Good for you.
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:09 PM
 
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I find it amusing that men are now waxing and plucking and primping and pruning. I dont find it attractive, just amusing.
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:13 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I find it amusing that men are now waxing and plucking and primping and pruning. I dont find it attractive, just amusing.
A little grooming is fine but, some guys are going way overboard. The reality show the Gotti's I think it is, all of those "guys" are freaking strange looking to me.

I've got a few choice descriptions for those kind of guys.

Mods would surely ban me.
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:14 PM
 
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I've always thought chest-shaving and excessive primping was a sign of mental or psychological weakness. I'm curious if women see the same.
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Old 01-21-2009, 02:25 PM
 
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I like my men to look like MEN!

Big and hairy!
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Old 01-21-2009, 03:00 PM
 
Location: CA
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Curvy men....whaaaa?

I like a narrow waist, broad shoulders, narrow hips and a cute butt on a guy. Long and lean legs too.
Not curvy at all... I'll take slender over chubby too. I don't like bony skinny or fat. Lean with some muscle tone is ideal.

As for hair, I think chest hair can be sexy, but too much is not. It really depends on the guy. I mentioned recently that I've seen some young guys with beards who were pretty cute. I also hate when men shave their legs - not sexy.

I'm stating ideals here....of course a great personality goes a long way.
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Old 01-21-2009, 03:09 PM
 
Location: CA
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They expect the women to be built like adolescent boys.
Statements like this disgust me.
Unless she has a penis, then a woman is not built like an adolescent boy. Some women are thin, and that doesn't revoke their vagina, uterus and xx chromosome from them . Not to mention, most high fashion models are teenage girls. Way to go - picking on young girls.

Why does it bother you that some women are thin and some men find them attractive? I don't understand why plump women are so resentful towards thin women....if you think they look so bad and think most men don't find them attractive, then why so bitter towards thin women?
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