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out of curiosity, a u a guy or a u a gal? Because cases are slightly different for guys. And one perennial truth is that girls often can't clearly articulate what they REALLY want to others and to themselves.
umm I think this gets the "worst post award" of the day...congrats!
Do not wait to loose your virginity if you are a male. If you have not lost it by the time you are 20 and you want to loose it and have wanted to for some time you need to put yourself out there and game up. Or if you can't do that, seek help, the vice kind. You don't want to DIE a virgin do you? Seriously, you could get into a car accident and die a virgin. I mean you do you want, as long as your happy, I'm just saying...and for the record i've payed for sex(I do this for fun) its not as bad as some people would have you think. Some times it can be really fun and exciting, don't get me wrong it can be dangerous too if you go to the wrong places (which i have). Get it over with, you will thank yourself later when you know what you are doing. plus these girls wont know your past. They dont have some magic detector in their brain or anything. I sit at gatherings with friends and family all the time and everyone thinks I'm just as all american as I can be. Women wont be turned of by your lack of experience because you'll know what you were doing. You will have no more issues. Just rememeber you got one life to live.
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Women will think your a loser if your a virgin dude. No nice way of saying it. Being an inexperienced male is frowned upon by most women. No matter what women say they want an alpha male and the older you get the harder it will be for you.
I think that it is good that you are still a virgin at 22 as is gives me a great feeling that they are males who are out there that dosen't think that u're weird or crazy to want to wait until marriage for sex. Also someone who has experience is not usually the best in bed as i have learned not once. My first time was horrible and disappointing and the guy had years fo experience over me. Also i would deffinitley date a virgin as i would be able to teach him the way in which i woudl love to be caressed in bed during love making and we could have lots of great experiences together as he wouldn't mind trying different things. Also i don't think that you should pay someone for sex just for the sake of losing your virginity but rather wait until u find the special someoen that you really love and who loves you back so that it could be a special and wonderful moment between the two of you. For if you go with an escort as suggested it will be nothing more that a one night thing and you woukd not feel anything at all and i don't think that you want that for your first time having sex. If your happy with being a virgin and your will to wait then do so because after all there in no price on your virginity, morals or beliefs or evn sharing that special moment with someone that u truly care about and who truly cares about you. So if you feel comfortable keeping it don't let no one change your mind no matter what they might say, think, tell or even call you.
Women will think your a loser if your a virgin dude. No nice way of saying it. Being an inexperienced male is frowned upon by most women. No matter what women say they want an alpha male and the older you get the harder it will be for you.
None of what you say is really shocking. It is admirable, however. Unfortunately, however, it doesn't happen for everyone that the 'specialness' of the 'event' is reciprocal. Being that way, some relationships may start off with that mutual respect and end up...elsewhere. I respect your choice. No matter how long it makes you wait. Hopefully, however, you find someone who agrees 100% with you, or else there might be a problem. I personally, do not believe in waiting for the perfect person. There is no such thing. Perfect people are made, not born. But like I said, I hope the world (and time) does not change your view. It would be disappointing if that happened.
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