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Old 11-16-2010, 12:56 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I was invisible to girls until my senior year of high school. I was also very shy around girls when I was a teen, but then most teenage guys I new (aside from the cool kids) were as well.
Aaaww, you poor baby... [IMG]http://******************/obscene-smiley-7250.gif[/IMG]

But you made up for it later, didn't ya?!
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Old 11-16-2010, 01:01 PM
 
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I was never an ugly duckling. I was always little and cute. As a teenager guys would tell me I looked like Linda Ronstadt. I was popular and cool as a 'bad girl'.

I became an ugly duckling in my 40s, invisible to men, kind of lost. You have this image of yourself for so many years and then you realise you aren't that same person anymore.

It has been an interesting development this aging process.
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Old 11-16-2010, 01:23 PM
 
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Now that I am a old Buzzard and looking back, I was not physically unattractive as a hatchling. I just lacked poise and confidence. It did not help having a brain the size of a planet. There are other things than looks that can lead to social un-acceptance. The Fable of the Ugly Duckling makes that point though.

I still look pretty good for an old buzzard.
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Old 11-16-2010, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Aaaww, you poor baby...

But you made up for it later, didn't ya?!
I'm fading back into invisible mode, at least in the eyes of New England women.
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Old 11-16-2010, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I'm fading back into invisible mode, at least in the eyes of New England women.
Meh... Get that shirt then!



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Old 11-16-2010, 01:35 PM
 
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I was fugly as a kid and now that I'm an adult, nothings changed.

There's more important things to worry about in life than what I look like.
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Old 11-16-2010, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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If you have to advertise then the product clearly can't sell itself.
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Old 11-16-2010, 01:43 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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If you have to advertise then the product clearly can't sell itself.
True... But, maybe like many others, you want to sell it to barely legal customers...
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Old 11-16-2010, 01:47 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I'm fading back into invisible mode, at least in the eyes of New England women.
I don't think you should necessarily be offended by that
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Old 11-16-2010, 01:48 PM
 
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I'm fading back into invisible mode, at least in the eyes of New England women.
Oh well, at least you're not invisible to New Zealand women
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