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She could find some sugar daddy who will sweep her off her feet with all the material posessions she could ever hope for - and believes she deserves. That's your out! Better take it while the taking's good!
You say she is in school and studies hard??? Woopdeedoo!! Does she work full time too on top of it, do you have children? If not, she sounds like someone with way too much time on her hands and who has never really had any serious crisis in her life nor worked very hard. Simply studying hard in school does not mean a person "deserves" anything and is easily done if there is not a job and/or children involved as well. She is the adult version of a spoiled brat.
Location: in a nice house my wife is trying to take from me
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She is 29... she is weird sometimes... she thinks she deserves "more"... she thinks she deserves "the best in life" as if the world owes her something and if you say that, she gets angry and denies it... its like this, I study hard in school, I deserve a BMW (thats her logic)... to me, when you are in school, it is your responsibility to study hard, you don't get awards for doing what you are suppose to be doing... I mean her potential is really great and she stresses over things like major exams and placements, etc etc... I don't think she will "ever" be happy with her station in life because she believes "the grass is greener on the other side"... whereas I am content where I am regardless if the grass is greener on the other side...
Encourage her to go on a mission trip or humanitarian relief project of some sort and see how bad many, many people reallly have it. Trust me on this, I taken trips all over the world like this, including third world countries, and people com back here changed when they see how bad it can be in other places. Makes you appreciate what you have here.
Drama! Is she a drama queen? I have learned in my life that there simply are some people who just are not happy unless there is a problem, some just LOVE to complain and some just love to feel sorry for themselves..
I use to have a sister in law that seemed to have a new crisis every day, she thrived on being in crisis mode so even a simple daily occurance was turned into a crisis.. I found a cute thing for her refrigerator and gave to her that said something like about people like her that had a new crisis day after day and it made her realize what she was doing and slowed way down on it.
As an alternative to the old "Scold's Bridle" (BBC - h2g2 - Scold's Bridle – A Punitive Gag) I would suggest duct tape. It's kind to punch a small hole large enough to accommodate a straw for nutrition.
As an alternative to the old "Scold's Bridle" (BBC - h2g2 - Scold's Bridle – A Punitive Gag) I would suggest duct tape. It's kind to punch a small hole large enough to accommodate a straw for nutrition.
As an alternative to the old "Scold's Bridle" (BBC - h2g2 - Scold's Bridle – A Punitive Gag) I would suggest duct tape. It's kind to punch a small hole large enough to accommodate a straw for nutrition.
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