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Old 03-17-2009, 11:07 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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How old are you ? Do you see her as marriage material? I would like to think if someone REALLY and TRULY loves and respects someone they wouldn't be carrying on like a little kid with a new toy- very into it ... They'd be into you.

The fact that you posted about it means it's on your mind so HELLO !!!! Don't be a deer in the headlights. She may not be doing anything yet, but "yet" is the key there !
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Columbus, OH
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ok i Know I am joining this thread a little late but this is the only question you needed to ask.

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Originally Posted by gman5431 View Post
So you dont think its possible for a girl to have any guy friends?

G Man
its possible for the girl to THINK she has a guy friend but no heterosexual male has ever wanted to be just friends with any girl. a guy might stick around as friends but thats only if: 1 the girl is already taken and he is just biding his time or 2 he doesn't have the cajones to ask her out. and since she is taken we do not have to discuss the latter option.

so what you've got is a guy hanging around your girl just waiting for an oppurtunity. now I wouldn't worry too much, if this guy was a real threat he would probably already made a move. but since it sounds like this guy is being way too nice I think you should laugh yourself to sleep because he is digging his way deeper and deeper into the friend zone.
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:12 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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Ya, most guys hit on their single girl friends, so true !! Aren't you curious about the text messages she's deleting,

From guy: "I know your boyfriend is there with you, but I wish I was with you, get rid of that monkey and come swing with me"

From Girl: "I feel bad, I have been with him 2 years, he's good to me"

From guy: "I'll show you good honey, you'll never want to go back".


Haaa !! Good luck.
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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I'm actually suprised she picked up another guy WITH YOUR BROTHER there !!
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:31 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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I think the OP should just ditch the broad and hook up with his imaginary buddy.
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:35 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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I think this poor guy sounds so nice and niave, I hope he finds his way and dates a nice, wholesome girl ... This current one is going to squash him like a bug soon ... For another guy !
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:37 AM
 
Location: City, State
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I'm actually suprised she picked up another guy WITH YOUR BROTHER there !!
No kidding. I first wondered whether or not the brother is banging her too. There's no telling with this guy!
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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But wait! He hasn't given us the "moral of the story" yet!!! Plus, we have to keep in mind he's talking about his "buddy's girlfriend" - not his own girlfriend (wink, wink).
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Iowa
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I think he should admit that he's gay and try and get the guy's number.
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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Maybe they're planning a three-some for you ... Whoo hoo !!!!!
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