Getting a crush on an internet friend - is it a silly thing? (family, attraction)

[samston]

so what should I say?

I don't want to turn her away.

[artsyguy]

love among many other things is an illusion, like success. Some people measure success purely on achievement. The high of achievement only lasts a short while.

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

some of us often fall in love with someone that never existed or only lived in our head. the person on the other end of the wire or even across the starbucks table is an utter stranger.
love the great illusion.

[optiflex]

meet her and just friggn chat...like ummmm you've been doig on the internetty machine....let her do most of the talking,,,, they like that

[optiflex]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

The blonde with the glasses in the album, right? Doesn't quite look like what I think your type would be...

yeah she's a tad old...34...i usually like em in their twenties..he he he

not only is she a teeny little hard body, she's the sweetest damn thing!

totally confused tho...she thinks i'm awesome

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by optiflex

yeah she's a tad old...34...i usually like em in their twenties..he he he!

That, too! I was expecting some trashy-looking gal, to be honest.

she thinks i'm awesome

That's all that counts!



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God, I hope this hotlinking doesn't get me in some trouble again!

[optiflex]

yes sam i think she's really might like you...before you imagine the love of your life and what not, why not just meet her for coffee...and yu don't have to be witty, or funny...they love that you just listen to them...and if you relax...the littlefunny stuff and the witty just come natural. WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE???

[optiflex]

Well i gotta get some sleep...i'm 827th out of 699,541 lousy myspace/facebook poker players!

[PA2UK]

Originally Posted by samston

I have suggested to meet but she says she is a bit wary since she hasn't met anybody off the internet before.

Is she worried about the safety issue? Remind her it would be totally in public until she's comfortable and you would never pressure her to be together in private until she's ready.

[temptation001]

Get a webcam. Maybe she will feel safer this way first.

[samston]

Originally Posted by PA2UK

Is she worried about the safety issue? Remind her it would be totally in public until she's comfortable and you would never pressure her to be together in private until she's ready.

I think it is a safety issue.

But I would not force her to meet, it wouldn't be right. when she is ready.