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Just a question because I was called an ******* for not feeling sorry for a few women I know who have made poor choices and birth multiple kids by multiple men. Its always been a rule for me to not date women with kids and i cant see how having multiple children by multiple men was ever a good idea. Discuss.
Why would you take pity on them because they have multiple kids by multiple men?
So does half of Hollywood and I dernn think they need any pity.
Are you referring to women in dire situations who just happen to have kids by different fathers? Or women who can't find a date because of the above?
I doubt many of them are hoping for the pity of others
I dated and lived with a woman with one child. We were introduced by a friend with 5 different baby daddys.
We were fighting constantly as she was demanding me to marry her. She would drink a fifth of rum before I got home so that was always pleasant. She had a one hour argument memorized and at the end went into automatic replay to last 4 - 5 hours. Her reasoning was if I really listened I would not be able to repute her logic. She could not understand that I did understand her, I just disagreed.
Her reasoning was our incomes combined would give us even more money 1 + 1 + 3? She was a big spender and ended up filing bankruptcy.
She became very physical with the arguing, struck me many times. Tainted me telling me to go ahead and hit her, I knew if I even hit her once she would have me arrested and forced out of my home. I just left my house when she was that violent, she ended up distroying many antique dressers and furniture when I left.
I told her I wanted her out of my life, she tried telling me if I married her it would get better. We agreed if she sought counseling I would allow her to stay in my home.
She had to go visit her grandmother for a week, she stressed out I would lock her out when she was gone. Two days into her visit she called me and said we need to talk.
I said go ahead and talk, she says "I am pregnant". I respond "oh s***!" She gets offensive saying this was not what I wanted to hear. I reminded her she was on a trial stay per condition. I told her I would pay for the abortion or child support.
She had a "miscarriage" on her flight home. Was it wrong of me to not point out she was on her period when she first boarded the plane to go to grandma's?
My later phone bill showed she had charged a 4 hour call to my phone where she had talked to the woman who introduced us with 5 baby daddies.
I told her I would not seek advise from Terri, she said yeah but Terri has been married a few times. I reminded that they were not successful marriages.
I'm the wrong person to respond, I always feel sorry for everyone. Some people just have poor judgement that never goes away, those kind of people are worth feeling sorry for.
Two years later and I still feel the same way....
Sometimes it's interesting to see an old thread pop up, read your own response and realize that I still have the same opinion.
I dated and lived with a woman with one child. We were introduced by a friend with 5 different baby daddys.
We were fighting constantly as she was demanding me to marry her. She would drink a fifth of rum before I got home so that was always pleasant. She had a one hour argument memorized and at the end went into automatic replay to last 4 - 5 hours. Her reasoning was if I really listened I would not be able to repute her logic. She could not understand that I did understand her, I just disagreed.
Her reasoning was our incomes combined would give us even more money 1 + 1 + 3? She was a big spender and ended up filing bankruptcy.
She became very physical with the arguing, struck me many times. Tainted me telling me to go ahead and hit her, I knew if I even hit her once she would have me arrested and forced out of my home. I just left my house when she was that violent, she ended up distroying many antique dressers and furniture when I left.
I told her I wanted her out of my life, she tried telling me if I married her it would get better. We agreed if she sought counseling I would allow her to stay in my home.
She had to go visit her grandmother for a week, she stressed out I would lock her out when she was gone. Two days into her visit she called me and said we need to talk.
I said go ahead and talk, she says "I am pregnant". I respond "oh s***!" She gets offensive saying this was not what I wanted to hear. I reminded her she was on a trial stay per condition. I told her I would pay for the abortion or child support.
She had a "miscarriage" on her flight home. Was it wrong of me to not point out she was on her period when she first boarded the plane to go to grandma's?
My later phone bill showed she had charged a 4 hour call to my phone where she had talked to the woman who introduced us with 5 baby daddies.
I told her I would not seek advise from Terri, she said yeah but Terri has been married a few times. I reminded that they were not successful marriages.
Are you even able to find your mind? You aren't out of it, you lost it and it must have been eaten by spineless jellyfish!
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Originally Posted by max's mama
Two years later and I still feel the same way....
Sometimes it's interesting to see an old thread pop up, read your own response and realize that I still have the same opinion.
Just a question because I was called an ******* for not feeling sorry for a few women I know who have made poor choices and birth multiple kids by multiple men. Its always been a rule for me to not date women with kids and i cant see how having multiple children by multiple men was ever a good idea. Discuss.
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I doubt many of them are hoping for the pity of others