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Old 06-14-2009, 07:08 PM
miu
 
Location: MA/NH
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Well part of it was because I needed a PHONE FRIEND since I was unemployed-lol But her conversations were becoming more and more uncomfortable and she seemed to be attached to me without meeting me. So that's why I had to send her a rejection letter yesterday-lol
You are such a selfish user! And is this part of the reason you didn't want to immediately answer phone calls from your prospective employers? You were too busy gabbing away with this young woman as if you cared about her. You are such a loser.
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Old 06-14-2009, 09:29 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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You are such a selfish user! And is this part of the reason you didn't want to immediately answer phone calls from your prospective employers? You were too busy gabbing away with this young woman as if you cared about her. You are such a loser.
Is it possible that TVSG has run his course on CD and been both outed and ousted? Time will tell. As much as many of us initially enjoyed his continuing saga in a tongue-in-cheek mode, he has become of late increasingly rude and denigrating and gone way beyond the bounds of civility required of any forum participant.

If he has indeed been ousted, I hope he was given some forewarning and given a chance to temper down his responses. If he has NOT been ousted and is busy watching TV, I hope the forum moderators will give him some warnings where basic forum protocol is concerned. Cheers!
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Old 06-15-2009, 01:18 AM
 
Location: The Midst of Insanity
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I met this girl online in April and we have been chatting on the phone since then and supposed to meet next week but I'm a little uncomfortable her mentioning how she is at the age now(31) where she is looking to be married and have kids.

I really don't need to hear this because I think things should happen naturally. I don't want to talk about marriage when I haven't met you yet. And her references to us living together is something that makes me uncomfortable and seriously considering not meeting her.


Guys if you were me would you be turned off?
Sorry-I'm a female but I want to say that I completely understand how that would turn you off.

If she's making references about the two of living together when you haven't even met-I would hightail out of there. She may be in a bad situtation where she's at now and is looking for anything to get her out of where she's at. You don't know what kind of drama and baggage she could be bringing with her.
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Old 06-15-2009, 01:19 AM
 
Location: southern california
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run..............
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Old 06-17-2011, 09:58 AM
 
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"bring your own condom and take it with you when you leave".


HILARIOUS AND ORIGINAL!!!
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Old 06-17-2011, 10:08 AM
 
Location: colorado
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I met this girl online in April and we have been chatting on the phone since then and supposed to meet next week but I'm a little uncomfortable her mentioning how she is at the age now(31) where she is looking to be married and have kids.

I really don't need to hear this because I think things should happen naturally. I don't want to talk about marriage when I haven't met you yet. And her references to us living together is something that makes me uncomfortable and seriously considering not meeting her.


Guys if you were me would you be turned off?

I asked my bf and he said yes..he said that would scare him off too...
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:07 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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Relationships are beneficial to women. Most women don't want to hear about if guy has a bad day at work.
That's absolutely ridiculous! That's exactly what relationships are all about. Supporting each other through the good times and the bad. It is so sad that you truly have no idea what a relationship is all about
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Old 06-17-2011, 07:58 PM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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I met this girl online in April and we have been chatting on the phone since then and supposed to meet next week but I'm a little uncomfortable her mentioning how she is at the age now(31) where she is looking to be married and have kids.

I really don't need to hear this because I think things should happen naturally. I don't want to talk about marriage when I haven't met you yet. And her references to us living together is something that makes me uncomfortable and seriously considering not meeting her.


Guys if you were me would you be turned off?
Oh stop overreacting, she's just basically telling you that she doesn't want to waste time with you if you don't have the same mindset - it does not mean she wants to have kids WITH YOU.

I've said this kind of stuff to random people that I am not interested in dating just for conversation sake. The people I kind of avoid saying it to are the ones that I don't want to scare off.
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Old 06-17-2011, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Atlantis
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I really don't need to hear this because I think things should happen naturally.
I noticed with women after the age of 30, that they started wanting to plan on having kids too. And I believed that things should happen naturally too. Thats why I got a vasectomy, continued dating, having sex (and sometimes lots of it) and just never told any of the women that I was with. It was perfect, because the ones that wanted to have a kid, kept F-ing as if their lives depended on it, in some attempt to get pregnant, not knowing the whole time that it wouldn't happen. Whenever I got to a point where I wanted out and needed to move on quickly, I would casually mention that I had a vasectomy. Over, just like that - it works perfectly.
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Old 06-17-2011, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Military City, USA.
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this is an old thread, I wonder what ended up happening, and if he ever found "the one".
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