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Old 09-01-2009, 08:44 AM
 
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Emmm....I used the word 'owe' because don't men feel that they deserve to reach orgasm when they start?
Not necessarily. I think it has a non-loving connotation.
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Old 09-01-2009, 08:50 AM
 
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Another rough night?
When that whole "journey" is over "$$$ and assets will come "a flyin" away from him".

MGTOW
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Old 09-01-2009, 08:52 AM
 
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I'm female and I take total responsibility for my own Os.

It's not something a man "gives" you , it's something you give yourself.

If I'm not in the mood for one, I'm not gonna have one. Period.

When I am in the mood, I may have 5 or 6 or......
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Old 09-01-2009, 08:57 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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I'm female and I take total responsibility for my own Os.

It's not something a man "gives" you , it's something you give yourself.

If I'm not in the mood for one, I'm not gonna have one. Period.

When I am in the mood, I may have 5 or 6 or......
5 or 6??????????? Marry me! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 09-01-2009, 08:59 AM
 
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Too many men look at a woman's orgasm as a race to the finish line. Something they have to reach, not realizing that the fun is in the journey. Know your partner...stimulate their MIND and their body...get with her rhythm and you'll know what buttons to push if you're paying attention. The orgasm will come (no pun intended), but don't be so mechanical as though reading from a manual...and don't depend on porn as a "how to" instructional video. Everyone has something different that does it for them...one size (and method) does not fit all.
Coolhand
If only you could get that thru to the rest of the guys out there.

I dont thinks it is a matter of owing, but for the guys that complain that their SO dosent want to have sex often..... just saying.
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Old 09-01-2009, 09:01 AM
 
Location: Professional gypsy
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I'm female and I take total responsibility for my own Os.

It's not something a man "gives" you , it's something you give yourself.

If I'm not in the mood for one, I'm not gonna have one. Period.

When I am in the mood, I may have 5 or 6 or......
I agree! No man is responsible for a womans orgasm. It takes does take two.I hate women who have no clue about their bodies, and what they like,and then blame the man for not knowing about how to pleasure them! I could not imagine handing over all my sexual power to a man and wait until he gives me an orgasm!
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Old 09-01-2009, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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I don't "owe" anybody anything. Those I give out for free.
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Old 09-01-2009, 09:06 AM
 
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Men owe their women nothing except respect EQUALLY TOWARDS EACH OTHER if they're in a relationship / marriage all else is a bonus when the "org" comes naturally without speaking about it.
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Old 09-01-2009, 09:07 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Emmm....I used the word 'owe' because don't men feel that they deserve to reach orgasm when they start?
It's a shame if you've only ever been with men who have this kind of attitude towards sex. Not all of them do, no.
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Old 09-01-2009, 09:13 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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For the guys who complain about the "once in a blue moon" factor - if she's gettin' off like plaidmom so aptly described above, then she would be seeking out you to get her groove on, i.e. there would be no dry spells. I'm just sayin'......
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