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I think you are going about this bassackward. Instead of thinking about having sex with a girl you've just met, try getting to know her first. If you are compatable, MAYBE the sex will happen after you've got to know each other. I think you are mistaken if you think girls, even young ones, dont pick up on the vibe that you are only after sex. They also have "desperation radar." No woman wants a desperate loser. Just try to get to know them. If you have even half a personality, maybe the sex will come.
'How do I approach a group of strangers walking around or sitting down and make myself likable to them? '
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Id say : ' Hey you guys...hows it going ? Can I join you for a few minutes ?' To make yourself likable, Id be open and approachable on issues thats being discussed, display an aura of confidence , be friendly, smile, and when talking directly with someone....listen intently to what they are saying, nod, and show you are connecting with them.
I would be yourself instead of trying to get people to like you , otherwise it can develop into a codependency thing where you try to please others so you can be content. I hope this helps in some way.
I think you are going about this bassackward. Instead of thinking about having sex with a girl you've just met, try getting to know her first. If you are compatable, MAYBE the sex will happen after you've got to know each other. I think you are mistaken if you think girls, even young ones, dont pick up on the vibe that you are only after sex. They also have "desperation radar." No woman wants a desperate loser. Just try to get to know them. If you have even half a personality, maybe the sex will come.
That's not what he wants. He wants the rutting dogs in heat kind of sex. The sex addict kind of sex that doesn't get to know the other person, doesn't care about the other person. The other person is just something to use for the moment and then is to go away, leave him alone because he wants to be moving onto the next piece of meat.
That's not what he wants. He wants the rutting dogs in heat kind of sex. The sex addict kind of sex that doesn't get to know the other person, doesn't care about the other person. The other person is just something to use for the moment and then is to go away, leave him alone because he wants to be moving onto the next piece of meat.
Yeah, you either need to be very hot or have one hell of a personality - preferably both - for this to happen. . . and well, no comment.
Listen OP, I strongly advise going the route of making new friends! They will open up many doors for you!
Seriously dude. If you want to meet people (girls included) you have to get involved. Join a campus organization, get a job on campus, start a study group, etc. You'll meet people, and those people will know people, etc. No one thinks a desperate loner is a great catch. If you just want to get laid with no strings attached call an escort. Use a condom, then get an STD test.
Look. You chose to be in relationships with your gfs, you were not "stuck" in them. Maybe you're just a relationship guy not a hook up guy and you're trying to be something you are not. People can see through this. And because some people get certain things it doesn't mean everyone does.
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