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Old 12-01-2013, 09:54 PM
 
Location: TX
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I could only plow through one page of denial and egotism (wives bragging about their "talents").

Human beings are not monogamous by nature - it is a forced monogamy, and not successful, just judging by the number of prostitutes "massage" services that accommodate other activities, etc.

It would be very interesting if everyone could see and know what everyone else is REALLY up to . . .
Are you implying that the average married man (or woman) has employed a prostitute?
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Old 12-01-2013, 10:12 PM
 
Location: earth?
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Are you implying that the average married man (or woman) has employed a prostitute?
I am personally not familiar with the business of prostitutes, but someone is using them.
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Old 12-01-2013, 10:59 PM
 
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Fine with me, as long as partner doesn't mind me getting porked by the pool boy.
Pretty much.

These guys can couch it in whatever terms they like, but the bottom line is that a "happy ending" is paying a woman to jerk them off. That is prostitution, and it is treated as prostitution by the law in the U.S.

They can talk about getting their peens "massaged," but I will lay money that unless they are in open marriages or relationships, they'd have apoplexy at the thought of a masseur's hand in their SO's crotch getting their SO off.
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Old 12-01-2013, 11:42 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Old 12-02-2013, 04:26 AM
 
Location: TX
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Pretty much.

These guys can couch it in whatever terms they like, but the bottom line is that a "happy ending" is paying a woman to jerk them off. That is prostitution, and it is treated as prostitution by the law in the U.S.

They can talk about getting their peens "massaged," but I will lay money that unless they are in open marriages or relationships, they'd have apoplexy at the thought of a masseur's hand in their SO's crotch getting their SO off.
Has anyone seriously defended this as "just a massage"? I didn't read the whole thread.
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Old 12-02-2013, 04:33 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I am personally not familiar with the business of prostitutes, but someone is using them.
Sure "some" are using them, but it's not a majority - not even close.

This chart shows somewhere between 15 and 20%
Percentage of Men (by Country) Who Paid for Sex at Least Once: The Johns Chart - Prostitution - ProCon.org
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Old 12-02-2013, 06:16 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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Not a big deal-saves me the wrist pain. Anything further and I cut it off
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Old 12-02-2013, 06:26 PM
 
Location: TX
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Sure "some" are using them, but it's not a majority - not even close.

This chart shows somewhere between 15 and 20%
Percentage of Men (by Country) Who Paid for Sex at Least Once: The Johns Chart - Prostitution - ProCon.org
Those are still shocking numbers! Hmmm, "men who paid for sex"... Are we sure the surveyors distinguished between actual prostitution and what some fruitcakes consider "prostitution" because they think paying for your date's dinner and having sex with her that night is comparable?
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Old 12-05-2013, 07:24 PM
 
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Those are still shocking numbers! Hmmm, "men who paid for sex"... Are we sure the surveyors distinguished between actual prostitution and what some fruitcakes consider "prostitution" because they think paying for your date's dinner and having sex with her that night is comparable?
A more compelling question: are sugar daddies included in those statistics? I wager not because they'd argue that they're not "paying for sex", they're paying a girl to hang around with them
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Old 12-05-2013, 10:05 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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Pretty much.

These guys can couch it in whatever terms they like, but the bottom line is that a "happy ending" is paying a woman to jerk them off. That is prostitution, and it is treated as prostitution by the law in the U.S.

They can talk about getting their peens "massaged," but I will lay money that unless they are in open marriages or relationships, they'd have apoplexy at the thought of a masseur's hand in their SO's crotch getting their SO off.
My friend is a police officer in Arizona and they raid these places all the time. There's a lot more going on than just hand jobs. Some of the stories he tells me are sad, those girls pretty much live at the places where they work.
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