Should a lonely man visit a prostitute? (advice, respect, celibate)
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To the OP, you did said that you are picky. Well, what is it that you look for in a woman? Then you said that you haven't put into any effort into persuing a real relationship. Do you expect women to just "put down" for having a vagina for you or you're having trouble with self-esteem? 'Cause, women (really good ones) can sense that. Maybe you do, because marriage-material guys won't sell off their masculinity for a fix!
Oh! Oh! And if you did, and get married, what's going to happen when your wife won't "give you some" because it's her time of the month or she's pregnant? What?You're going to get yourself a prostitute for that "fix," huh? Juuusst wondering.
First, Surveyor, I feel for you. Loneliness is a serious hurt. I've been there, it could be that most of us have been there to one extent or another. But the sad truth is, going to a prostitute will not help you, not with your loneliness anyway. There is nothing morally wrong with it, though these days I would find the whole thing a bit disgusting. I didn't always feel that way. It is true that life is not fair, not even close, and that fact becomes more evident. I wish you the best.
What I find preplexing beyond my comprehension is the number of people who are encouraging surveyorusa (The OP) to seek comfort, or whatever you want to call it, from a prostitute rather than other sources, that are clearly the better alternative. I know the group that's encouraging him is a small minority of the US population, and I know the majority will definitely discourage him from going that route.
SurveryorUSA, think about this - If you start hanging out with a prostitute, there's always a danger of getting addicted to them, just like cigarettes, alcohol, and drugs. Think about it, the comfort is temporary, but the damage from the addiction will be permanent. You might start out with one cigarette, or a small amount of drugs or alcohol for comfort, but before you know it, there is a big chance you will become addicted to the substance, and find it very tough to give up without some professional help. Not to mention the dangers that are associated with any kind of a substance abuse.
I don't know how active you are in church, but that's the first place to seek comfort, rather than a prostitute.
Just something to think about.
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