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Okay.....I dress pretty sexy most of the time. I don't bare it all, but I do dress very Housewives of OC. I get my nails done every couple weeks, hair done every month. I spend 6-8 hours week working out and spray tan couple times a month. Does that make me s l u tt y? Does that mean I am attention seeking? Does that mean I get my self worth from men looking at me?
I don't even go out anywhere without my husband. Men don't get a chance to look at me...lol. I like to look a certain way for me. It makes me feel good, if I know I look my best I feel good. I can't imagine being sloppy, with my weight, looks etc. Its kind of like your home, when your home is clean, organized and in order, often it is a reflection of your life, and your life is in order as well. Same with your body, at least imo. Plus its freaking hot here most of the time!!!
To be quite honest, the op seems quite hypocritical to me. Stripping to make money, then calling others s l u tt y for the way they dress is the utmost of hypocrisies.
Sorry, have to disagree with this completely. Living in a small town for decades, a family can still raise a drug addict or ****, or criminal for a child.
I didn't realize we were talking about criminals and drug addicts. It seems to me that we are talking about girls who dress provocatively.
I don't know why my posts were difficult for you to understand, but my point was not that big cities always produce these types, or that small towns cannot. My point is that traditional tight-knit communities have insular ways and are not as prone to national fads and trends.
I didn't realize we were talking about criminals and drug addicts. It seems to me that we are talking about girls who dress provocatively.
I don't understand why my posts are so difficult for people to understand, but my point was not that big cities always produce these types, or that small towns cannot - it was that tight-knit communities have insular ways and are not as prone to national fads and trends.
I disagree, tight knit communities have the same problems as large cities, they are just as prone to national fads and trends, they just get them later. I have seen pregnant teenagers in small towns just as much if not more than in big cities, often due to lack of education, income, or other factors.
I disagree, tight knit communities have the same problems as large cities, they are just as prone to national fads and trends, they just get them later. I have seen pregnant teenagers in small towns just as much if not more than in big cities, often due to lack of education, income, or other factors.
You are twisting my argument to suit your objections. I do not see pregnant teenagers coming out of the types of communities I have been referring to. They may come out of communities that consist of individuals with no class, like I said. And like I said earlier, having class has little to do with income or wealth. To me, a group like the Amish has "class," while a large swath of Manhattan (for example) does not.
Our society is increasingly mobile, and we communicate across long distances in far larger quantities. That is what causes this shift in values, where local community-oriented values are secondary to national ones.
I don't even go out anywhere without my husband. Men don't get a chance to look at me...lol. I like to look a certain way for me. It makes me feel good, if I know I look my best I feel good. I can't imagine being sloppy, with my weight, looks etc. Its kind of like your home, when your home is clean, organized and in order, often it is a reflection of your life, and your life is in order as well. Same with your body, at least imo. Plus its freaking hot here most of the time!!!
I have to disagree completely. A lot of people I know who looked sort of hippy-dippy, or very un-hot in college had/have their lives much better ordered then many people who did look hot. I am not saying that being hot is not important or worthwhile, but rather that you cannot really gauge whether a person's life is in order by their looks.
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my eldest daughter was a nude dancer at one time, she used the money she made from dancing to put her way through college. now she is a chemical engineer and enjoys it.
What a good parent you are! You don't see anything wrong with this picture here? Chris Rock said " I mean, they don't grade fathers. But if your daughter's a stripper, you ****ed up."
I guess, if you don't see anything wrong with this, how can you possibly teach your daughter values and morals, what an incredible society we are living in
What a good parent you are! You don't see anything wrong with this picture here? Chris Rock said " I mean, they don't grade fathers. But if your daughter's a stripper, you ****ed up."
I guess, if you don't see anything wrong with this, how can you possibly teach your daughter values and morals, what an incredible society we are living in
I saw plenty wrong with it, but my daughter was over the age of 18 and I could not force my daughter to do otherwise.
also, americans for the most part are sexually rerepressed and like to tell others how to live their lives.
hence we have more goverment control when less is needed.
What a good parent you are! You don't see anything wrong with this picture here? Chris Rock said " I mean, they don't grade fathers. But if your daughter's a stripper, you ****ed up."
I guess, if you don't see anything wrong with this, how can you possibly teach your daughter values and morals, what an incredible society we are living in
I have to note that some girls strip for the quick money. It's not always an indicator that the parents were awful. Some girls are comfortable with their bodies and don't see anything morally wrong with stripping. They just see it as an easy way to earn from fast cash. I know two girls that were strippers for a time while they were also in college. They were both very close to their parents (but never told them because they were very religious).
There's a difference between stripping for a career and stripping as a part-time thing to make money to pay for school or whatever.
I have to note that some girls strip for the quick money. It's not always an indicator that the parents were awful. Some girls are comfortable with their bodies and don't see anything morally wrong with stripping. They just see it as an easy way to earn from fast cash. I know two girls that were strippers for a time while they were also in college. They were both very close to their parents (but never told them because they were very religious).
There's a difference between stripping for a career and stripping as a part-time thing to make money to pay for school or whatever.
What's funny is no one ever knocks the guys who go to strip clubs and drop a bundle on the dancers. If there wasn't a huge demand there would not be the easy money.
I love to watch sexy naked women dance but only if it's free. No use paying for it.
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