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Old 02-04-2010, 06:31 AM
 
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betamanlet, do you have an inferiority complex?

I don't think you're serious personally, and you are pathetic.

How come you have no self-worth? Name some good things about you. Seriously, list them. it would help in your new self-confidence.

I will list what I perceive to be my strengths as a person:

- Can grasp things relatively quickly, and without much explanation
- Have an open disposition
- I can write English at a high level
- I am articulate, at least most persons I know in real life say this about me
- I have extensive knowledge of world affairs

Now, write some positive points about you.
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:31 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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betamanlet, do you have an inferiority complex?

I don't think you're serious personally, and you are pathetic.

How come you have no self-worth? Name some good things about you. Seriously, list them. it would help in your new self-confidence.

I will list what I perceive to be my strengths as a person:

- Can grasp things relatively quickly, and without much explanation
- Have an open disposition
- I can write English at a high level
- I am articulate, at least most persons I know in real life say this about me
- I have extensive knowledge of world affairs

Now, write some positive points about you.

I have no STDs, and no chance of getting any

I can write English at a high level.

I have been published

I have been cited

I know lots about militaria and history
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Old 02-04-2010, 07:37 AM
 
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Ew, just the term"beta manlet" makes me want to puke. Why would I want a subservient partner? I am an alpha personality, and I want my mate to be an alpha as well. Betas are boring, annoying, and not worth my time. And anyone that refers to themselves as a "manlet" obviously has issues.

I think I just threw up in my mouth. Gross.
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Old 02-04-2010, 08:22 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Many of your posts contain spelling, or grammatical errors.

And cue lame excuse.....................................

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I can write English at a high level.
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Old 02-04-2010, 08:35 AM
 
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I have no STDs, and no chance of getting any
Okay, that's nice. See what are you sniveling about then?
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I can write English at a high level.
Really?
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Many of your posts contain spelling, or grammatical errors.

And cue lame excuse.....................................

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I have been published
Does blogs and online forums count as being published?
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I have been cited
Again quotes of your post online forums count?

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I know lots about militaria and history
That is actually kinda interesting.
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Old 02-04-2010, 08:42 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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He had a letter published in "Seventeen" once.

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Does blogs and online forums count as being published?
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Old 02-04-2010, 10:44 AM
 
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I have no STDs, and no chance of getting any

I can write English at a high level.

I have been published

I have been cited

I know lots about militaria and history
So why the self-doubt?

You are merely compounding your own problems by deeming yourself a "manlet".
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Old 02-04-2010, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Arlington, VA
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He had a letter published in "Seventeen" once.

No, actually my Law Review Note is published and his been cited in many Articles and even a Treatise on Unfair Competition and in a property law casebook.

Because you guys may have no accomplishments, doesn't mean that nobody else does either.
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Old 02-04-2010, 11:00 AM
 
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If you are half as smart as you claim. Seek help. A bit of confidence is a good thing. If your assertions are correct you would be half way intelligent. Confidence without being cocky is always a good thing. Ask yourself what do you have to offer? If you really want to improve yourself, use your qualities to "sell" yourself.

If you can't seek help. And save the trolling for fishing.
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Old 02-04-2010, 11:08 AM
 
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It's funny though, that if a woman comes on here, and complains about something, she gets comfort and support, and ig a guy does it he gets "man up and quit your whining".
The problem is not of gender. The problem is what they're complaining about. This applies to both men and women. When I see a woman complaining about how the dating pool rewards people who are young and/or thin and punishes women who are older and/or heavier, I offer no sympathy. Why? Because that person is complaining about they either can't change or could change if they really wanted to. If people reject you because of your weight, then either lose weight or even better, tell yourself those people aren't worth your time. If they reject you because of your height, then brush it off and move on. You're 5'10" and you act like you're 5'1". I'm 5'8". At least you're above the average male height. I'm not. If anything, I should be the one complaining, not you. But I don't. Because I remind myself of two things. One is that I'll never be taller so why waste time complaining about my disadvantages? And two, why waste time on someone who would reject me because of my height? We all want someone who'll accept us the way we are and if they can't, they're clearly not the right person for us. Your problem isn't your height. It's your mindset. Instead of making due with what you have and focusing on your good points, you dwell on what you have working against you. That would be like me whining about not being able to find a job because I only have a bachelor's degree. I can either get more education or shut my mouth and quit whining.
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